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Ruben Onsu's struggle to win Sarwendah's heart and finally get married was not easy.

  12 Juni 2024 16:48

Brilio.net - After reportedly separating from each other, Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah Tan's household is now on the brink. Ruben Onsu officially registered a divorce suit against his wife. The divorce lawsuit filed against Sarwendah was registered under number 551/Pdt.G/2024/PN JKT.SEL.

There are no clear names for Ruben or Sarwendah in the lawsuit. However, the name of Minola Sebayar's attorney is listed as representing the parties. In fact, news of Sarwendah and Ruben Onsu's divorce has been circulating since last May.

"Case number 551 is correct, with the Panel of Judges Djoyamto, Agung Sutomo Thoba and Arif Budi Chayono," said Tumpanuli Marbun, quoted from KapanLagi, Wednesday (12/6).

Rumors of domestic problems between the two of them were also confirmed by Minola. He was asked by Ruben to have a discussion with Sarwendah's legal team to discuss the problems they were facing .

"I am really communicating intensely with Sarwendah's attorney. We are discussing matters related to the continuation of their household," explained Minola Sebayar in an interview on May 24 2024.

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The news of the divorce of the two couples who have three children shocked the public. The reason is, their household is said to be very romantic and full of love. Apart from that, remembering that Ruben Onsu fought so hard to win Sarwendah's heart.

Their love story had twists and turns until they finally got married. When PDKT was with Sarwendah, Ruben was repeatedly rejected every time he expressed his feelings for the former member of Cherrybelle.

"He's been a fan of me from the start. He just shot me four times," said Sarwendah in the 'One Man Show' program hosted by Tukul Arwana which aired in 2021.

Ruben Onsu immediately denied this. However, he admitted that Sarwendah had rejected him until he finally accepted his love.

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photo: Instagram/@ruben_onsu

"No, it's just a gimmick. It's not like it, first it was rejected, second it was rejected, third it was rejected," said Ruben Onsu, responding to Sarwendah's story. "Finally, the last force was forced," said Sarwendah, joining in.

Ruben admitted that he always acted romantically during the three PDKT sessions with Sarwendah. Until the fourth time, he emphasized his firm attitude towards Sarwendah.

"Once, twice, three times, it's romantic. Ask about the fourth, how's it going?" Ruben asked Sarwendah.

Sarwendah said that Ruben called her while forcing her. Ruben asked about Sarwendah's attitude, which must be firm, whether to accept it or reject it.

"Call, force me. Whether you want it or not, I like this date. If you don't want it, that's fine, don't have to. It's already 11.59. If you want it, no way," said Sarwendah.

Ruben Onsu's struggle to get Sarwendah  2024 Instagram

photo: Instagram/@ruben_onsu

Ruben admitted that it was difficult to approach Sarwendah. His romantic gestures were always rejected, such as inviting him to dinner or giving him flowers.

"I'm tired of being given romantic gifts. I don't accept dinner, I don't accept flowers. Last time he was dating far away, bro. I'm in Fatmawati, he's in Bojong. That's right, I mean, there's a lot of petrol running out, right? So what's the matter or not?" Reuben said.

However, Ruben's struggle finally bore fruit. The two of them married on October 22 2013 and now have three children.

"Yes, finally accepted," said Ruben.

However, unfortunately their household is now ending in divorce. They have only been married for 11 years. The South Jakarta District Court has set a schedule for Ruben and Sarwendah's first divorce trial. Their first trial will be held on July 9, 2024.

(brl/wen)

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