The husband's behavior did not even change when his child died.
25 April 2024 04:43
Brilio.net - Living a domestic life is not something that can be taken lightly. Between husband, wife and children, each has responsibilities that should not be underestimated. Especially for a husband who is generally appointed as the leader of the family.
The responsibility to be the master of married life, provide a living, and always channel love is mandatory. Domestic conditions will become problematic if the husband's behavior is far from a sense of responsibility.
This is what was also experienced by a woman who told a sad story via the account @nurhayatihennaart. Through this upload, this woman told the story of her sorrow when her husband had the heart to abandon her and her child.
photo: TikTok/@nurhayatihennaart
" My duty as a wife has been completed. I will return this Green Garuda book to the state, " wrote the account owner named Nurhayati who started the story, as reported by brilio.net from TikTok/@nurhayatihennaart, Thursday (25/4).
The husband is known to be a person who is very addicted to games. As if he doesn't know his time and responsibilities as a husband, he never leaves his smartphone screen to play online games.
" Always indifferent and never has time with his wife's children, " continued Nurhayati.
photo: TikTok/@nurhayatihennaart
This woman revealed that during pregnancy she could not pamper her husband. Even her husband tends to avoid her when approached. Even when his child was born, he didn't seem to want to share the task of taking care of their baby with his wife.
photo: TikTok/@nurhayatihennaart
" Every day it's always games, games, games and games until late at night. Meanwhile, when asked to help me change the trade for milk, I say I'm tired, I never want to, " wrote the woman.
Her husband's addiction to games seems to have become an incurable disease. This eccentric behavior continued when he was reluctant to pay more attention to his child.
" The child wants to play with his father and is ignored. "His father is more concerned with the game than his son's feelings ," continued Nurhayati.
This woman's husband's inappropriate behavior also led to the sad moment of the child's death. The moment that should have been a wake-up call for her husband actually turned out to be the opposite. Nurhayati revealed that the man never realized it, even when he was determined to buy a new house with the money from selling Nurhayati's jewelry.
photo: TikTok/@nurhayatihennaart
Until finally, Nurhayati divorced this man because she could no longer stand the treatment she received from her ex-husband. This sad story also invited netizens to respond in the comments column. Some are also furious and think that the household is not a child's toy that can be taken lightly.
" If you can't carry out your responsibilities in the family, it's better not to get married and have children, boss. In the end, it's just for toys. Until the child dies, that's forgiving! " wrote the account owner @dwitasaridwita.
" Good decision, sis. Sis's mental health is more important ," said the account @novims___.
" Sometimes I get annoyed with men like this. The cellphone can never leave his hand, he keeps his children's mouths and their hands on the cellphone. If he doesn't have the cellphone, he sleeps carefree, and wakes up later the cellphone is back, worship is missed, even eating is still on the cellphone "So that the child can easily give him a cellphone too, well, just imagine for yourself what the result would be. Thank God, this didn't happen to me but to my environment ," wrote @uul_martiwul
" If you don't clean up your inner self, when you remarry, you will definitely meet a new husband whose character is more or less the same. Clean up what's inside and what's outside will sort itself out," said the account @bagasardyantoro.
Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
