foto: TikTok/@argy.._
Brilio.net - Having a romantic relationship can be really fun. There are many exciting things you can do with your partner. The initial stage before getting to marriage is to get to know each other by dating. There are some people who don't adhere to the dating system, but quite a few choose this method to find their true love.
When it comes to dating, everyone has their own views. There are those who can easily enter into a romantic relationship, but there are also those who decide not to date. The reasons are varied, ranging from wanting to focus on education, career, to some who feel they are not financially ready to have a serious relationship.
That's what was felt by a man who shared his reasons for not dating by uploading the TikTok account @argy.._.
This man named Argi shows that his family's condition is quite complex. This condition made him decide not to date. Every day there are messages from the family about money, like it or not, Argi has to dig into his family's pockets .
reasons for not dating
TikTok/@argy.._
In the post, it is shown that his father often chats to borrow money. On Friday, May 24, he was seen receiving a chat from his father to borrow money. The reason is to pay the boarding house.
The next day, Argi received the message again. The water at home has reached the deadline to be paid for. Meanwhile his father admitted that he did not have the money to pay. So, once again, Argi was asked to pay Rp. 50 thousand first.
Not only for household needs, Argi's father also often asked for help for his younger siblings' snacks. For example, when the younger sibling wants to go on a picnic, but the father doesn't have any money.
"Here's your idea, on the 29th, can you help me by giving your little brother money for a picnic, sir, I don't have any money," was written in the chat.
reasons for not dating
TikTok/@argy.._
His younger siblings also focus on Argi. School needs such as shoes that are damaged or cellphones that need to be repaired are borne by Argi. At a relatively young age, Argi is desperately struggling to meet all the family's needs.
Many netizens are curious whether his father is no longer working? Why is Argi always asked to meet his needs? According to his statement, this happened after his mother died.
"I used to have a sales business but now I've been lazy since my mother died," he wrote.
In fact, Argi is not the first child to have to bear this burden. He was born as the second child. It's just that her brother never cared about family matters. So Argi is the one who has to bear it. In the end, he was the one who struggled to meet the family's needs. It could be said that Argi is the sandwich generation .
reasons for not dating
TikTok/@argy.._
This story went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many of course feel sorry for what is now Argi's burden. Apart from that, netizens also flocked to provide encouragement via the comments column.
"Keep your spirits up bro, your first child will always bring good fortune to the family," said the account @evaa
"Sir, you have to stay married. Build your household, help your family as best you can," wrote @lailawithwicy
"You don't need words of encouragement. But you're really cool, bro. I hope everything goes smoothly," commented the account @wqwqwqwq
"My brother is not like this. You are very lucky to have a brother like you," said the account @manasikdiri.
reasons for not dating
TikTok/@argy.._
From the time the video was posted until this article was written, the @argy._ account has gathered 130,300 viewers. Apart from that, there were also 3,822 likes and hundreds of comments.
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