foto: TikTok/@milaauliaaa
Brilio.net - Recently, a woman named Mila Aulia's story on social media went viral and caught the attention of netizens. Through an upload on her TikTok account @milaauliaaa, she poured out all her heart about her marriage journey which initially went smoothly. Now it has to end because her husband chose to divorce due to pressure from his parents.
" Yura can't, she prefers to obey her parents and get a divorce, rather than fixing their household ," the caption in the upload, quoted by brilio.net from TikTok @milaauliaaa, Monday (30/9).
Initially, Mila's marriage with her ex-husband in the first year went well. From that marriage, Mila struggled to build her household. Starting from building a house by sacrificing property, such as a dowry, selling a motorbike, and bank debt. The house could stand but Mila had to be in debt.
" My struggle to build a house by selling a motorbike, selling a dowry, bank debt, being entangled in online loans, until my salary, which was almost always 6 million/month, was used up just like that digging a hole to cover a hole of online loans. It turns out that no matter how hard the struggle is, it can only be enjoyed for one year ," wrote the caption in the video upload.
But unfortunately after Mila sacrificed everything, her two-year marriage had to be destroyed just like that. Traced from the comments column, the beginning of the destruction of the household was due to usury committed by Mila and her ex-husband.
" Sis, do you know where the starting point of destruction is? Usury ," said the account @anggunbacarita.
" Yes, the usurers were the ones who were destroyed alone ," Mila said.
photo: TikTok/@milaauliaaa
In addition, Mila's ex-husband also did not fulfill his responsibilities as the head of the household to provide for her family. In this case, it was Mila who always financed her ex-husband's needs. The existence of problems that could not be resolved made the parents of the ex-husband intervene.
" I've struggled hard to provide for you with clothing and shelter, but because of problems with your parents, I was thrown away like trash ," he wrote in the comments column.
Mila's in-laws' interference actually made her have to divorce. Not only that, Mila was also willing to sell the house to cover debts and avoid her ex-husband's family. This is because their houses are close together.
" The house has been sold to cover the debt. My in-laws have never had a house, since my husband was little he always moved around renting. They got a house after my husband worked and my husband paid for the house every month. So they never felt the test ," she added.
In the comment column, Mila also added that her ex-husband's salary was around 4.5 million. The income was still divided for parents of 2.5 million, installments for a house of Rp 800 thousand, and other needs. Because the salary was not enough for all needs, Mila finally met her own household needs.
" His salary is 4.5 million, his mother gets 2.5 million, he pays 800 for the house installments, he gets 500 for gasoline a month, not including motorbike servicing, donations, etc. So I'm the one who looks for my child's living expenses and milk. Meanwhile, I'm already in debt ," he explained.
A marriage that should have run smoothly and lasted until old age, had to end in divorce. This woman's confession then made her heartbroken and caught the attention of netizens.
" Oh my God, it's so sad to read ," commented the account @tataw.
" Miss algebra for your mother-in-law, may your prayers reach the sky ," commented the account @mawar.
" If you work and have a good income, raise your children using the money from your hard work. Stay strong ," wrote the comment from the account @inne_iriana.
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