Brilio.net - Marriage is the dream of many married couples to be lived happily until death do them part. However, in reality, not all marriages go as expected. Although various efforts have been made to maintain household harmony, sometimes marriages end in divorce.
Divorce often makes a couple's relationship strained or even causes hostility. However, there are also those who choose to maintain a good relationship even though they have separated.
This is what went viral on social media TikTok recently. A woman named Nuni Dwiyanti shared a unique moment with her ex-husband that caught the attention of netizens.
In the video that has been viewed more than 700 thousand times on Saturday (14/9), Nuni is seen waiting for her ex-husband on the side of the road to be dropped off at work. What made this video viral was Nuni who still showed a harmonious attitude even though they were divorced.
photo: TikTok/@nunidwiyanti_4
In the video, Nuni wrote a simple but meaningful caption. Hinting that even though their relationship has changed status, respect and good relations are still maintained.
" Still harmonious even though you have separated ," he wrote, quoted by brilio.net from the TikTok account @nunidwiyanti_4, Saturday (14/9).
photo: TikTok/@nunidwiyanti_4
She even had time to kiss her ex-husband's hand when getting off the motorbike. Both of them seemed not to be embarrassed to show their closeness so that it looked like a couple who were still husband and wife.
Nuni's actions in still maintaining a close relationship with her ex-husband sparked debate among netizens. Some of them questioned the reason why they had to divorce if they could still respect each other and remain close.
" Why break up if you're still together ," said @melva
" Wow, why separate if you can still be harmonious ," said @liyayani
" Why do you use all the hand kissing ," wrote @yulfasanti
photo: TikTok/@nunidwiyanti_4
Not only questioning the reason for their separation, there are also those who bring a religious perspective. A netizen with the account @Falishababyspa gave the view that closeness like this will be rewarded if they are still husband and wife, but if they are divorced it is considered sinful.
" If you are still a husband and wife and are close like that, you will get a reward, but if you are an ex, you will sin ," he wrote.
Responding to netizens' questions and curiosity, Nuni Dwiyanti finally gave a brief explanation of the reason for their separation. When one netizen asked seriously why they were still getting along despite being divorced, Nuni answered, "Circumstances."
However, this story teaches that every couple has their own dynamics and reasons for making decisions. Whether they separate or remain harmonious, it all comes back to those who are in the relationship. The most important thing is that mutual respect and kindness are maintained, even in the midst of separation.
(brl/lea)