Love is not approved in return for proud achievements
29 Maret 2024 15:23
Brilio.net - Have you ever heard a story of unsanctioned love? Yes, in real life there are quite a lot of love stories that sink before landing on the aisle. One of the most common reasons is because they don't get parental approval .
There are various factors why parents do not approve of their children's romantic relationships, ranging from heredity to material readiness. One of them is what happened to the girl whose love story ended because she was insulted by her future in-laws.
Through her TikTok account @arinikamilia, a woman whose full name is Arini Kamilia Ramadhani tells her sad love story. Arini once had a moment where she was hurt, when she was still dating her lover.
photo: TikTok/@ig.arinikamilia
In the upload, Arini initially showed that she was a female student. Arini was seen wearing a yellow shirt combined with batik bottoms and a brown headscarf.
This female student status is also looked down upon by her ex-boyfriend's parents. The future father-in-law belittled Arini by calling her a woman who had no future at all.
Arini is thought to only be a housewife with low values. This girl from Bangkalan, Madura, was also prohibited from being close to her ex-boyfriend for fear of causing trouble.
photo: TikTok/@ig.arinikamilia
"Don't come near my child anymore, you student student ends up in the kitchen, it will end up causing trouble for my child," wrote Arini, as if imitating the words of her former future father-in-law.
Arini felt hurt by those words. According to him, these words were very demeaning to him. In fact, according to him, female students also have a lot of potential to achieve success in the future.
Even so, several years after the moment of her rejection, Arini apparently did not care about the insults she received. The teasing was even used as motivation to prove that female students can also have a bright future.
photo: TikTok/@ig.arinikamilia
Sure enough, five years later, Arini was transformed into a tough and strong woman. Not only physically but also mentally.
Yes, Arini managed to qualify to become a member of the Women's Navy Corps (Kowal). She showed off a portrait of herself wearing a camouflage shirt while maintaining the appearance of her hijab.
Like teasing her ex-lover's parents, Arini added striking words to her photo with greetings
"How are you mom?" he wrote
As if that wasn't enough, Arini then showed a photo of herself wearing TNI AL clothes while standing on the deck of a warship. Don't forget, Arini added some striking sarcasm.
"Do you still remember me?" that's what Arini said.
Not only is she a member of the Indonesian Navy, Arini also appears on her Instagram account to be married to another man. She often shares portraits of her intimacy with her husband, who is known to work as a member of the Indonesian Air Force.
Apart from photos of her intimacy with her husband, Arini also showed photos of herself wearing an army uniform while carrying a weapon.
photo: TikTok/@ig.arinikamilia
Arini's story went viral on social media. Many netizens wrote their appreciation and motivation to Arini to continue pursuing her dreams without caring about other people's insults. Apart from that, there is also advice not to be arrogant even towards people who have hurt you in the past.
"The proof is real," wrote the account owner @chifuyumtsun.
"Sometimes people's insults can be used as a bitter pill so that we can become stronger and more resilient in achieving our dreams. Keep up the enthusiasm, brother," said @riskaikka01803.
"Sis, I was once in your position all the way from Surabaya to Bali but it turned out that the broken home thing was not approved and now I am better and have a very good husband," wrote the account @giegie_sh89, feeling related.
"Allah is the best planner. Even though you have been successful, remain humble and don't be arrogant, sis. So that the blessings given are not revoked and we become miserable again," said the account @srirahayu7370 writing down his advice.
@ig.arinikamilia #lb #foryou #berandatiktok #bangkalan #madura #tni #navigation force original sound - Arinikamilia
Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
