foto: TikTok/@dumbdumbhun
Brilio.net - Migrants often make children feel worried about the condition of their parents who have been left behind. This is because they have to travel quite a long distance from their hometown, meaning they cannot return home as often as possible. There are many factors at play, ranging from costs to difficulties in getting time off for long periods of time. Seeing all this, of course a child's worry increases, they think about the condition of their parents.
This was also felt by the woman who shared her story on social media via the TikTok account @dumbdumbhun. This woman, who works as a doctor, has left her hometown when she was still in college.
He admitted that he was always worried about his mother's feelings. He had been away from home for years. Meanwhile, recently I rarely go back to my village because it is difficult to get holidays.
"I think mom must be lonely, leaving her child wandering for years. Rarely comes home because it's hard to get a holiday," he wrote.
worried that mom is lonely
TikTok/@dumbdumbhun
But who would have thought that the mother's condition was far from what he feared. His mother was even freer to explore her world. As seen in the post, his mother doesn't seem lonely at all. In fact, he was the one who in the overseas land experienced the turmoil of feelings.
"The lonely one is me, be healthy, my scholarship is my heaven," he said.
It can be seen that the mother spends a lot of time with her activities. In fact, his mother went to Tokyo, Japan alone, without her child accompanying her. Even though it's difficult to speak foreign languages.
worried that mom is lonely
TikTok/@dumbdumbhun
Apart from that, the mother also took part in guarding the students who were demonstrating. He did this because he filled his free time. Even though his son admitted that he had never participated in the demonstration at all.
"Mothers guide their children to speak about truth, honesty and justice in this country," was written on a banner when her mother held a demonstration.
This woman also did not think that her mother was busy in the world of fashion. In this post, his mother even took part in Citayem Fashion Week. Wearing a green dress full of sequins, the mother strutted confidently on Zebra Cros.
worried that mom is lonely
TikTok/@dumbdumbhun
It didn't stop there, it turned out that his mother did something else unexpected. It was reported that he wanted to run as a legislative candidate from one of the parties. The candidacy photo appeared to be ready, but for some reason the mother reportedly did not register. His son was actually grateful for this.
"But it's not on the list, guys," he wrote.
As if she didn't feel lonely at all, the mother also carried out several social activities. Such as compensation for orphans and also gathering with friends.
worried that mom is lonely
TikTok/@dumbdumbhun
This story then went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many have given their views on the content. Some say the mother is more able to express herself when the child is no longer with her. As if he felt his responsibilities were over.
"Anu... it seems like we, mama's children, are actually a burden and a hindrance to mama's activities, right?" said the account @orangyunani.
"In the past, when I played, my mother was the one who was anxious and worried. Now my mother wants to play with her friends, instead I am the one who is anxious and worried, and keeps chatting with Mulu, "where have you been?" "With whom?" "How much jam, please? ?" said the account #akaiito
"Thank God, it's better for parents to be active like this rather than seeing them sick and healthy, Auntie!," said the account @hqyura
"He's waiting for you to go abroad, bro," commented the account @mel.
(brl/ola)
