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Brilio.net - Not a few people have saved in advance for future marriage capital. Moreover, preparations for this wedding are not small, including venue costs, catering, decorations, clothing, documentation and so on. If added up, the costs can reach tens to hundreds of millions of rupiah. Saving helps prospective couples to manage finances well and reduce financial burdens when the big day approaches.
That's what a man named Ado did. He always set aside his salary and gave money to his girlfriend to fund their marriage. After totaling up, around IDR 20 million in money had been collected. Unfortunately, Ado's efforts were met with betrayal by his lover. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @eccedentediast37.
After saving enough money, his girlfriend actually had an affair with another man. Their relationship ended and the wedding did not take place. Meanwhile, the savings that have been collected are also unclear.
After breaking up, his ex suddenly contacted him again with a new number. The woman who used to be his girlfriend sent proof of transfer with a nominal value of IDR 5,720,000.
photo: TikTok/@eccedentediast37
It is known that his ex's intention was to send money to return all of Ado's marriage capital that he had saved. I don't know what the woman did with the Rp. 20 million she had collected. The reason is that when he sent money to Ado, he only gave a quarter of the amount he had saved. The ex then said he would pay the savings in installments until everything was paid off.
"I'm paying off the money you gave me in installments. For capital for my marriage first, I'll work on the rest. I only have that much," he wrote in the chat.
photo: TikTok/@eccedentediast37
Ado said that he did not ask for the money at all. Ado has given up his money at the same time his ex left with another man. Therefore, for him, there was no need to return the money.
"Just think of it as my contribution to capital to marry your new boyfriend," he wrote.
After sending the money, the ex then expressed all his heart. He said that his life was ruined after leaving Ado. He also did not marry his current girlfriend. So the woman also hopes to improve her relationship with Ado.
photo: TikTok/@eccedentediast37
Remembering that he had been hurt so deeply, Ado certainly didn't want to do it again a second time. Because of this, Ado said there was no longer any chance to improve his relationship. He said that his feelings were so broken after being betrayed last time.
After that, Ado had to live a messy life. He couldn't trust other women anymore. It is known that they have been in a relationship for 4 years.
The woman was still trying to beg. But instead of apologizing, it was seen in the chat that he was actually playing the victim. It was as if he was the one who was hurt the most in this relationship. In fact, his ex said that Ado was an evil figure.
Of course, with all that Ado gave this woman, he didn't accept being called evil. During their courtship he never calculated at all. In the end, Ado was no longer able to serve this woman. He immediately blocked his ex's number.
photo: TikTok/@eccedentediast37
"Are you saying I'm bad? In the past, if I wasn't serious about you, it wouldn't be possible for you to keep half of my salary, even all my savings with you, because of what?" he said
"Because I promised I would marry you, even after I signed up, you were still playing in the back," he continued.
This story went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many of course feel sorry for what this man experienced. They also conveyed words to encourage Ado in the comments column.
" I just paid for my meal and I don't feel good anymore :( What's more, I was given money like that, " said the account @cak
" One man is disappointed, one man's world feels the pain and pain, I hope he will quickly be sincere even though it is difficult. I hope his heart will improve, my brother, " wrote @farhan
" Be patient, bro. I've felt that too. In the past, I bought him a cellphone and laptop, and paid for him to go to college. He always held my salary so he could buy whatever he wanted, " said the account @adinsyh.
" I've really felt like this, but I'm the opposite, I'm the one in your position, bro, and now I find a good guy, it's really hard to believe, " commented the account @njeyyina.
(brl/wen)
