Brilio.net - Being abandoned by a father is certainly a tough test in life. Without his presence, going through days full of struggle feels so hard. Even so, life must go on even though it must be passed with deep sadness. A woman who is familiarly called Fey shared her story of being separated from her father for 20 years.
Through her upload on her TikTok account @hafsanst, Fey shared her story about her father who left her 20 years ago. Even so, she does not hold a grudge against her father at all. With an open heart, she can forgive all the mistakes of the father who disappeared from her life.
" I can, Yura. Forgive and don't hate my father who left me 20 years ago ," he said as reported by brilio.net from the TikTok account @hafsanst on Friday (9/8).
photo: TikTok/@hafsanst
Fey also told how she first met her father again. She said she was shocked when she got a chat from a stranger. However, she knew for sure that it was her father's number.
" I was really shocked when I suddenly looked for and chatted with my father. The feelings were really mixed up. Confused about how to respond, " he wrote.
In the chat, she and her father made an appointment to meet. Seen in one of the messages, her father seemed to reminisce about the times when Fey was little. Her father also expressed his gratitude for having a child who grew up to be beautiful.
photo: TikTok/@hafsanst
" Thank goodness, daddy's son is beautiful and has a beautiful heart, but is he still upset like before? I don't stop crying if he's not being held by daddy. The last time daddy took you with you was in elementary school, " wrote his father.
Long story short, they finally had a meeting. Fey admitted that she couldn't stop her heart rate when she wanted to meet her father. The longing that had been kept for so long could finally be poured out.
" Finally we met. Both of our eyes were really puffy because we kept crying from the beginning until we went home, " said the woman.
photo: TikTok/@hafsanst
In addition to meeting her father, Fey also realized that she now has two older brothers and a younger sister. This was discovered after her older brother tried to build communication with Fey. In addition, she also had the opportunity to meet her brother.
" It turns out I also have an older brother and two younger siblings. Thank God I'm not alone anymore and they can all accept me, " he wrote.
It is known that her father left Fey with only her mother. However, Fey tries not to hate her father. She thinks that at that time it was not easy if she was in her father's position.
" Thank you, Dad. You came looking for me even after so many years. I know it's not easy being in Dad's position, " he concluded.
photo: TikTok/@hafsanst
Her story then went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many were touched by her magnanimity in forgiving her father. Not a few also told about their father in the comments column.
" I can't, Yura. Since I was born, I have never met my biological father. I don't know where he is now and until now, at the age of 24, I really don't know what it feels like to have a father, to be loved by a father, to be protected by a father, " wrote the account @aywlndrii__.
" Thank you for making peace with the past, " said the account @tasya.
" KAAAAKK I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOUR HEART IS AS BIG AS THE OCEAN, I don't know you but I'm proud!! Now you have to be happy, happy!! " commented the account @sevendipity.
" Sis, I'm crying... I want to feel like you, but what can I do? From a baby to a grandmother... and even my parents feel like strangers because they're not that close... so like other people, I cry when I see your story, " commented the account @nadiiyaaanolhsop.
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