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Brilio.net - Every mother wants to give the best to her child, including ensuring that the child eats healthy and delicious food. For this reason, many mothers are willing to wake up early to prepare food for their children at school.
But what happens if the food that the child is supposed to eat is actually eaten by his classmates? This incident was experienced by mothers who own the TikTok account @bellafilly25. Through one of her uploads, this mother of three children confessed that the lunch she had prepared for her child was actually taken by her child's classmates.
Furthermore, this mother named Bella uploaded a photo of her child's lunch last Saturday (23/7). In the photo, there is a note or note on a piece of paper that says ' please don't ask for Faira's provisions '. In capslock letters, the mother also signed her name on the bottom right side of the paper.
In the upload, Bella also talked about the phenomenon of today's schools which tend to be more complicated. Children who are taught various things often do not get their own rights. Therefore, Bella gave notes or notes in the child's lunch.
"The phenomenon of today's schools is that they can't teach children to share, instead they go too far, their own children can't feel comfortable eating lunch made by their mother, my own child never eats her friends' lunch," wrote Bella in an annoyed tone, quoted by BrilioFood from TikTok @bellafilly25 on Tuesday (23 /7).
photo: TikTok/@bellafilly25
This statement immediately drew many pros and cons from netizens, in fact the upload has been viewed more than 3 million times. Not a few other TikTok users were furious with the mother's actions which actually taught her child to be selfish and reluctant to share.
" Am I the only one who tells my children to share lunch with their friends, especially my friends ," explained TikTok @Mamaya.outlet.
" Why don't you teach your friends? Special provisions for your children, add some to share with your friends...done ," said TikTok @Dhini Yustika Yulisman.
" In the past, I never forbade my children to share their lunch... whatever they wanted, they took the initiative themselves and asked for more side dishes to share with their friends who didn't bring it ," wrote the TikTok account @ndari.
photo: TikTok/@bellafilly25
Responding to many counter statements from netizens, Bella then also told about her action. Like most mothers, she initially taught her child to always share, including sharing supplies if a friend asked. However, over time, the child complained that he was not full with the provisions he had brought. After investigating, these provisions were often requested by friends.
" Every Sunday I make a lunch menu list, at first I didn't have a problem with my friend asking, but I went too far asking again ," said Bella in the comments column.
It doesn't stop there, the provisions taken are also sometimes demanded by force. Bella even admitted that her child's friend once took a supply of meatball soup made with her bare hands. This certainly reduces the hygiene of the food.
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As a result, instead of teaching sharing, Bella actually asked the child to defend his property rights. With the hope that the child can get his rights, such as provisions that are made. But who would have thought, many mothers today also experience incidents like this. This can be seen from the many mothers' comments in the comments column about their children's supplies being often taken away.
" Finally, someone from my son's high school, I'm tired, woke up at dawn, got everything ready for the night, thinking hard about tomorrow's provisions, what else will he do until school, he's not the one who said his friend didn't bring any lunch, he's been given another one ," said TikTok user @ARZHIO KIDS.
" At first I taught my son to share his lunch with his friends, but in the end my child didn't eat any of his lunch because his friends had already finished it. Since then my advice has changed ," explained TikTok @Yoshie Sarimulia.
" After I found out about my child's provisions, I asked him to go to middle school every time he went home, at the end of the day I made 2 boxes, if a friend asked for one, give me 1 box, if no one ate after taking a break then 2 didn't have to promise, " replied TikTok @Noona Purple.
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