Brilio.net - All women certainly agree that they want to be the only person their partner loves. This makes quite a few people treat their partners possessively so that they don't move on to someone else. Including, cheating on him with another woman by remarrying.
But unlike most women, Irfan Hakim's wife, Della Sabrina Indah Putri, actually allows her husband to practice polygamy. This was revealed when Della was a guest star on the FYP TV show hosted by Irfan Hakim.
During the event, Irfan Hakim received questions regarding polygamy. He then asked his wife directly. Della loudly revealed that she would allow her husband to remarry. However, Della gave special conditions if Irfan Hakim wanted to have polygamy.
"Mother, if father remarries, what will you do?" asked Irfan Hakim as reported by brilio.net from the FYP Trans 7 broadcast, Thursday (20/6).
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"I've already asked, if my father wants to remarry, that's okay with me. But can my father be able to do it? He said, 'I can't do it,' but one thing hasn't been taken care of yet," said Della.
Della also explained her reasons for allowing Irfan Hakim to practice polygamy. Nothing other than because she sees her husband as a responsible man who is able to act fairly.
"I dared to say that because I saw that he himself could not take responsibility for it (polygamy), right? Two (wives) must be difficult, I am looking for heaven, he is also looking for heaven," added Della.
Even though he had obtained his wife's permission, Irfan Hakim said he was against polygamy. He realized that he would not be able to do justice if he remarried. He even felt that he was not giving enough time and happiness to his wife.
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"Yes, I can't do it. Even one is still not a lot of time given properly. Even one can't make you happy, there's no need to pretend to add more, it's going to be a hassle," explained Irfan Hakim.
According to this father of five children, polygamy can only be practiced by men who can act fairly and will not hurt their partners. However, if this cannot be done, it is better to give up the idea of having more than one wife.
"Actually, it's not prohibited, but a choice, not an obligation. And the consequences are very high, big, so don't do anything if you can't afford it, don't try. Don't pursue a sunnah but hurt other people, hurting someone is actually a sin ," stressed Irfan Hakim.
(brl/jad)
