foto: Instagram/@sitibadriahh
Brilio.net - Siti Badriah , recently expressed her feelings of being disturbed by the many negative comments from netizens regarding her skin condition during her second pregnancy . The comments not only appeared in the comments column of her social media, but also flooded direct messages on her personal Instagram account. Siti admitted that the comments had made her feel insecure.
Nevertheless, Siti feels lucky to have a husband, Krisjiana Baharudin, who always supports and strengthens her. Krisjiana often reminds Siti that the changes in her skin condition are only temporary. Her husband's support is a source of strength for Siti to face these negative comments.
Through her Instagram account, Siti shared her feelings about the skin changes she experienced during her second pregnancy. She revealed that her skin became rough, different from her first pregnancy. This change made Siti feel very insecure. However, she still tried to be positive and grateful for the support she received.
photo: Instagram/@sitibadriahh
" Darling, let me share a little, in the comments and DMs there are still people asking what's wrong with my skin?, how come I'm so pale when I'm pregnant?, Onoh used to be beautiful when she was pregnant, she wasn't like that (comparing) and Blablabla ," she wrote.
Siti also revealed that the hormonal changes during her second pregnancy made her feel uncomfortable. "I was really insecure because of the hormonal changes during my second pregnancy. I was thin but suddenly fat again, from smooth to full-bodied," she said.
However, behind her sadness, Siti still feels grateful for having a husband who always gives full support. " Grateful to have a husband who always gives positive support to his wife, thank you for always realizing and strengthening that this is only temporary.. even if it doesn't come back again, it is very comparable to the gift that God gave," she continued.
In addition, Siti feels grateful for the extraordinary opportunity to be able to conceive a second child without a special program. This shows how valuable this pregnancy experience is for Siti and her family.
" An extraordinary opportunity... able to get pregnant for the second time without any program at all... even Allah proved His power by entrusting us with twins, even though one was taken away. This has been an extraordinary gift for us ," he continued.
At the end of her message, Siti wrote for people who often give negative comments. She felt sad because most of them were women and fellow mothers.
" And for those who are being gossipy. What's even sadder is that most women and fellow mothers, the hormones of pregnant women are not the same, they are definitely different. And women should strengthen each other, not bring each other down, " she concluded.
Through her outpouring of her heart, Siti Badriah hopes to make many people aware of the importance of supporting and understanding each other, especially in dealing with the changes that occur during pregnancy. Support from those closest to you, such as your husband, means a lot in dealing with these difficult times.
(brl/red)
