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The divorce between Edward Akbar and Kimberly Ryder that occurred in November 2024 left many questions, especially regarding why Edward has not met his children, Rayden Starlight Akbar and Aisyah Moonlight Akbar. Kimberly, who now holds custody, explains the situation openly.
He emphasized that there was no prohibition for Edward to meet his children, but until March 16, 2025, the meeting had not occurred. This has become a public spotlight that is curious about their family dynamics.
In an interview at Studio 41, South Jakarta, Kimberly said, "Not yet (met again)," which reflects the bitter reality faced by this small family.
Nevertheless, Kimberly showed a wise attitude and focused on the welfare of her children. This mature and understanding attitude is very much appreciated in the midst of a complicated situation.
Kimberly's young children often ask about their father's whereabouts. As a mother, Kimberly handles these questions with patience and honesty.
She never badmouthed Edward in front of her children, but instead chose to explain the situation in easy-to-understand language. This shows how important it is to maintain children's emotional stability in the midst of parental separation.
Kimberly explained to her children about Edward Akbar's absence in a tactful way. She said, "I told them that their father needed some alone time and couldn't come to see them yet."
This statement shows Kimberlys attempt to protect her childrens feelings and avoid overly complicated or hurtful explanations. She chooses to focus on her childrens emotional needs above all else.
Furthermore, Kimberly emphasized that she never badmouthed Edward in front of the children. "I never badmouthed him (Edward Akbar) if the children asked, I explained the truth," she said.
Kimberly also made sure her children understood the changes in their family. "I also explained to the children that they no longer live with their father," said Kimberly.
The wedding of Edward Akbar and Kimberly Ryder which was held on August 26, 2018, was in the public spotlight. This couple is known to be harmonious and far from negative news. However, fate said otherwise. This household that once looked harmonious had to end up on the table of divorce.
On July 12, 2024, Kimberly filed for divorce from Edward at the Central Jakarta Religious Court, which surprised many, considering that the couple had never previously shown any signs of serious marital discord.
The divorce process was finally officially decided on November 29, 2024. Since then, Edward and Kimberly have officially separated, leaving big questions about the future of their children and the relationship between Edward and his children.
Parental divorce always has an impact on children. Although Kimberly tries to explain the situation honestly and tactfully to her children, there are still potential emotional impacts to be aware of. Children may experience confusion, sadness, or even guilt.
Family and community support are essential in helping children through this difficult time. Therapy or counseling can also be an option to help children process emotions and adjust to new situations.
(brl/red)
