foto: Instagram/@viavallen
Brilio.net - Via Vallen has recently been widely discussed because his house in Kalitengah Village, Tanggulangin District, Sidoarjo was raided by a number of people on Monday (22/4). Instead of looking for the dangdut singer, dozens of men acting on behalf of the Arek Sidoarjo Alliance (AAS) were apparently looking for the whereabouts of Rafi Pratama alias RF, Via Vallen's younger brother.
Apparently they demanded that Rafi return the motorbike belonging to one of the alliance members named Adyt who works as an online motorcycle taxi driver. Rafi is suspected of having pawned the motorbike.
Initially, Adyt pawned his motorbike to Rafi for IDR 3 million with a deadline of two months. After only 15 days, Adyt had some luck and bought his motorbike to Rafi. However, Rafi allegedly 'threw' the motorbike at another person. Rafi also suddenly blocked Adyt's number and didn't know where he was.
Even so, the alleged motorbike theft that dragged Via Vallen's younger brother ended peacefully. This was after the police mediated between both parties. Rafi agreed to provide compensation.
After this incident, apparently Via Vallen had time to confide in her family's condition. He wrote this via broadcast channel on his personal Instagram, @viavallen.
Being the first child, Via Vallen does not deny that he has a bigger burden. He felt that feeling when he had to play the role of an older brother.
Via also mentioned that family members who act badly will definitely have an impact on him. Even though Via did not clearly say who she meant, the statement seemed to describe the condition she is currently experiencing.
"If your family member does a bad thing, it will definitely be the scapegoat child who will be blamed," wrote the singer of the song Meraih Bintang.
Via also gave examples of family problems that she allegedly experienced in her own life. He said that one of his family had a hobby of playing online gambling and spent a lot of money.
"For example: if someone in your family likes gambling, they give you money to spend on gambling," explained Via.
As the backbone, Via Vallen tries to always provide the best for his family. However, if the money given to her family was actually used for the wrong thing, of course Via would feel angry. Until finally he decided to stop giving monthly money.
Unfortunately, Via's actions actually caused one of her family members to sell all the items that Via owned. Some were even pawned.
"The one who used to give money doesn't want to give any more, Ehhh instead he sells things at home that don't belong to him, then he keeps the other stuff too," said Via.
Sadly, Via was the one to blame. He was even accused of forgetting his family after deciding to get married.
"In the end, those who don't want to give money anymore are blamed, said they have changed because they are married, for example," he added.
The changes shown by Chevra Yolandi's wife are not without reason. He said that his family's behavior was what made him like this.
At the end of the story, Via discussed parents who have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). However, he did not want to explain this in detail. He also chose to encourage all his fans who may be experiencing the same problem.
(brl/ola)