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"I have been passive, tending to remain silent because I am fighting for my marriage not to separate," said Teuku Ryan
7 Mei 2024 09:42
Brilio.net - The household of Ria Ricis and Teuku Ryan ended in divorce. The divorce decision hearing for the two was announced via e-court which was read by the public relations officer of the South Jakarta Religious Court on Friday (3/5). Apart from granting the divorce, the panel also decided that child custody would fall into the hands of Ria Ricis. Meanwhile, Teuku Ryan is obliged to provide a living of IDR 10 million per month.
After officially divorcing, the contents of the divorce lawsuit filed by Ria Ricis spread on social media. In the contents of the lawsuit, there are various problems that triggered the breakdown of Ricis and Ryan's household. One thing that netizens are highlighting is Teuku Ryan's attitude, which is considered to no longer care about Ria Ricis in front of his mother.
The spread of the contents of the divorce lawsuit made Teuku Ryan receive negative attention from netizens. Not wanting to drag things out any longer, this father of one child clarified the news of the divorce decision that had spread on social media. Feeling that he was cornered, he explained the confusing things that had killed his character.
"Even though I am disappointed and sad, I am trying to respect the decision that has been made. I have been passive, tending to remain silent because I am fighting for my marriage not to separate," explained Teuku Ryan, quoted from his personal YouTube channel, Ryan TR Official.
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Ryan himself regrets that his household problems cannot be resolved properly. The reason is, according to him, the reasons for the separation are trivial matters. Moreover, because news of the decision spread, Ryan was insulted by many netizens.
"I work, I'm not a sorry man, he said it was really rude, mokondo as mentioned by buzzers with fake accounts who attacked my social media, my family, management and the people closest to me," he said.
Reported by brilio.net from YouTube/Ryan TR Official on Tuesday (7/5), the following is Teuku Ryan's clarification regarding the contents of Ria Ricis' divorce lawsuit.
1. Confirm that the divorce was not caused by a third party or domestic violence.
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Teuku Ryan emphasized that his separation from Ria Ricis was not due to a third party or domestic violence. He also asked all parties to check the court decision which had been spread on social media.
"I reject all slander directed at me and my family. First of all, I separated not because of a third party and not because of domestic violence," said Ryan.
Even so, Ryan admitted that he was disadvantaged because the letter was shortened to points that were detrimental to him. As a result, he felt that his reputation was damaged, even though all this time he had been trying to secretly look after their small family even though they eventually separated.
2. Admit that the mother has apologized for the date ice incident.
photo: YouTube/Ryan TR Official
The misunderstanding regarding iced dates at sahur occurred when the parents visited for their first child's 4-monthly recitation event. Ryan's mother, a health graduate, questioned Ria Ricis who gave Ryan date ice because he had tonsils.
Considered sensitive by Ria Ricis, Ryan admitted that he thought the reprimand was normal, because his mother asked him in a gentle tone. However, Ryan admitted that he had reprimanded his mother.
"Actually, I also reprimanded my mother without telling my wife, so she thought I had never defended her. My mother realized her mistake and immediately apologized to me and my wife, even though she only meant to ask. Everything has been straightened out and my wife has forgiven me," explained Ryan.
3. Misunderstanding about working during the fasting month.
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Furthermore, regarding Ryan's mother's warning for asking her child not to work during the fasting month. However, Ryan said that there was a misunderstanding regarding this. The reason is, Ryan's parents think that his job is flexible and can be done at any time. Moreover, it was the first moment of gathering with family.
"My parents think my work is more flexible, filming and YouTube content can be done at any time. Maybe that's what my parents think," he added.
4. Joking about asking his wife to have a fuller body.
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Next regarding Teuku Ryan's comments regarding Ria Ricis' body. Ricis admitted that she was not confident with her body, and even thought about having breast implants. Ryan explained that he was joking because he saw that his wife was losing weight.
"I was able to say that it should be fuller so that it would be more comfortable to hug, namely just joking between husband and wife," he said.
Ryan himself defended himself because Ricis often commented on his appearance. Starting from his hair style, to Ricis prohibiting him from having a beard because he doesn't like it. He never thought that what he said would hurt Ricis.
"I like (saying) 'Come on, fill out a little, don't be too skinny like you're not happy'. It's normal for me to comment and this isn't ridicule or body shaming," he explained.
5. Depressed so that you don't provide enough spiritual support.
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Regarding mental health, Ryan himself is reluctant to talk about this because it is a sensitive topic. Ryan admitted that he had inner pressure as a result of this problem which made him feel less enthusiastic.
"You need to know that when carrying out this process you have to be happy and have a calm heart, whereas I am always under pressure. In this marriage there are many small things that I don't want to reveal but these must be explained," he explained.
Some of the problems include his mother being accused of stealing hampers, then the house installments. Ryan is quite stressed about paying for two house installments, namely the house in the Griya Harmoni housing complex and another house which is being renovated by Ricis.
"The value is very large per month, while my income is just barely. I can't communicate my feelings of pressure because I have to follow my wife's wishes. That's why I lose passion because my mind is depressed and tends not to appreciate everything," he stressed.
6. Communication blocked by Ria Ricis.
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Ryan once called Ricis a disobedient and arrogant wife. However, he himself regretted and apologized because these words came out when his emotional condition was unstable. Ryan explained that these words came out because Ricis cut off communication even though at that time Ryan was still her husband.
"How can I communicate if my WA is blocked, DMs are sometimes not answered. But when my wife DMs, I immediately respond quickly. Then if I want to communicate with my wife, I have to go through an assistant, a nurse, I even have to go to the manager first. You can't do it directly. Even if "I went out of town and abroad without my husband's direct permission. This is what made me upset and ended up saying words that were out of control. Once again, I apologize profusely," he said.
7. Don't know about the transfer of Rp. 500 million from his wife.
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According to Ryan, the accusation regarding the Rp. 500 million money case is the most sensitive and has brought down his dignity. In his position at that time, Ryan himself was quite surprised to get a large amount of money into his account. He only knows that the money is money from brand endorsements, not from his wife. If he found out about the money from his wife, of course he would refuse.
Meanwhile, Ryan's problem with his wife is because he has a fairly large bill for the event. So Ryan was confused about how to cover the money for the event, even though his finances were tight.
"Actually, I'm in a depressed position. I'm really confused about how I can cover such a big event, even though my finances are tight. And how can my mood not change drastically when I hear that I'm getting a job with big pay. By Allah, by Allah "I didn't know anything at all that the transfer came from my wife," he explained.
Ryan also explained that his mood had changed for the better because there was a family gathering for their first child's 7th month event. Of course, he felt happier, especially since the transfer was right on his daughter's 7th month.
Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
