Even though Ryan tried to clarify, Rustam still blamed his son for being less assertive as head of the household.
23 April 2024 11:20
Brilio.net - Until now, the divorce process for Teuku Ryan and Ria Ricis is still ongoing at the Jakarta Religious Court. In this trial, Teuku Ryan's father, Teuku Rustam Effendy, was presented as a witness. Nothing else, because Teuku Ryan's father previously acted as the family representative, in mediation with Ria Ricis' family last November .
Even though the household that his son built ended in divorce, Teuku Rustam said that he still maintains good communication with Ria Ricis, his daughter-in-law. Rustam believes that Ricis already considers him like his own biological father. In fact, Ricis often invites him to travel just to eat together.
photo: YouTube/Ricis Official
"Ricis and his father are still good, sometimes he takes him to lunch, he's still good. Ricis and his father have a very close relationship. He is considered a father like his father too," said Rustam Efendi at the South Jakarta Religious Court, as reported by brilio.net from merdeka6.com, Tuesday ( 4/23).
Not only traveling to eat together, Ria Ricis even invited her in-laws to go on Umrah together. Unfortunately, at that time Rustam and his wife were not able to participate in the Umrah with Ria Ricis' family.
"It's good, Yunifa's mother took me to the Umrah yesterday, but she couldn't. It's good with Ricis, it's good with Ms. Oki, we're still brothers and sisters with Ricis' family, especially since we have a bond with grandchildren," added Rustam Efendi.
Rustam said that Ricis also often complained about his household problems with Ryan. Even though Ryan tried to clarify, Rustam still blamed his son for being less assertive as head of the household in resolving the problems he was facing.
"Because Ricis WA told dad, he blamed Ryan. Dad still, even though Ryan clarified, still blamed Ryan. Dad still blamed Ryan as the head of the family, he has to be able to resolve this," explained Rustam.
One of the complaints that Ria Ricis complained about was that Ryan prioritized his friends. Meanwhile, Ria Ricis was still pregnant.
photo: YouTube/Ricis Official
"For example, there is a report there, Ryan likes coffee, Ricis likes to tell you. Ryan likes coffee, he is more concerned with his friends, while Ricis is pregnant. Even though he said he was drinking coffee, his father called him on the phone. Ryan drinks coffee with his clients who give him work. "But Ryan still said, still apologize to Ricis," explained Rustam.
In contrast to Ricis, Rustam said that his son is a person who is closed to household matters. According to him, Teuku Ryan does not want to burden parents with the problems they are facing.
"If Ryan is a bit closed off when it comes to household matters, he found out from Ricis. He doesn't want to be a burden," he admitted.
As a father, Rustam certainly wants his son's household to be reunited. Both families made various efforts to maintain Ricis and Ryan's household. Both families have also carried out mediation to avoid the worst possibility of this divorce trial process.
"We want them to remain united. The point is, my father's extended family, 'don't separate'. All of this can be repaired. There has been mediation twice, there has been, we are still trying not to separate," said Rustam Efendi.
Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
