Brilio.net - Sometimes, seeking equal love is important to build a healthy and harmonious relationship. Equal love means that both parties respect, support and have the same commitment. Apart from matters of feelings, partners should also be equal in social strata. This avoids both of them degrading each other.
However, this is different from this woman who works as a lecturer . He was currently studying at doctoral level. Willing to marry a factory employee with a D3 educational background. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @yeselsandra.
It is known that a woman named Yeni was proposed to by a factory employee. At that time, her husband only earned IDR 800 thousand. Meanwhile, Yesi is a lecturer. They married in 2003.
photo: TikTok/@yeselsandra
Due to the husband's lack of income, it is known that his salary is only enough for round trip travel costs. Because both of them are in an LDR relationship. However, Yesi is not concerned about her husband's salary or education. For him it was just a matter of time.
"In the past, getting married was very simple. It didn't reduce the blessings and happiness in the slightest," Yesi sincerely said.
Yesi saw the potential in her husband and convinced him to live their life together. In the story, the husband even decided to continue his undergraduate studies while working. In the morning, her husband had to go to the factory, while in the evening he was busy attending lessons.
photo: TikTok/@yeselsandra
In 2007, Yesi's husband decided to resign from his job. Not without reason, but because he got a Masters scholarship at ITB. Without thinking, the husband immediately took the opportunity. He continues to try to be equal with his wife regarding education.
Finally, his wife completed her doctoral degree in 2009. At that time, Yesi was studying doctoral degree at Padjadjaran University. In the same year, my husband followed with a master's degree. The husband successfully completed his master's degree at ITB.
Also in 2009, her husband, who used to be a factory worker, was finally accepted as a lecturer at Andalas University in Padang. However, I feel dissatisfied if my education is not equal to my wife's. Finally, Yesi's husband chose to continue his PhD in the land of cherry blossoms, aka Japan.
photo: TikTok/@yeselsandra
While studying, Yesi and her husband took their children to attend school there. One of Yesi's children was even born in Japan. After a long time, her husband finally graduated from his doctoral degree at Kanazawa University.
Now both of them have the same educational degree. Her husband also has a strategic teaching position on campus. This story immediately attracted the attention of netizens. Many responded in the comments column.
"The journey will definitely not be as smooth as other people see, it's full," ayanabatik_pklongn.
"I can't imagine how democratic the children are because their parents are highly educated, have broad insight, salute," said the account @ada
"The real gap is not equal, but one has to be willing to adapt and work harder to be able to pursue equality, it's cool, it's not uncommon nowadays for men to feel inferior to women," commented the account @kacankk.
"This is just the results shown, the journey may require extra patience and sincerity," commented the account @barkahsuranto.
photo: TikTok/@yeselsandra
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @yeselsandra account has gathered 3.5 million views. Apart from that, there were also 144,400 accounts that gave likes and 2,369 comments.