Brilio.net - Usually, for couples who want to get married, the important thing that must be considered is the location where the party will be held. This will affect the entire event because it concerns aesthetics, guest capacity, accessibility , and so on. By determining the right location, both guests and event owners will have a memorable experience at the wedding.
But sometimes there are people who choose unexpected places. I don't know if it's because of limitations or because it was deliberately held at that place. One of them was done by this bride. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @odenkjaya_89, reported by brilio.net , Wednesday (28/2).
From the start, the video shows the conditions of the wedding reception. The tent stands majestically with the dominant color purple. Near the aisle there was also a bride and groom who were sitting, indicating that the event had begun.
photo: TikTok/@odenkjaya_89
What makes it unique is not the tent design, but the choice of reception location. After looking further, it turned out that the event owner chose to set up a tent in the middle of the grave. It appears that the graves are separated by ropes and plastic bags to prevent guests from stepping on them.
Indeed, the design of the tent looks spacious and wide. However, the condition does not extend too far back. Usually, at the entrance to the wedding event there will be a gate and a narrow path. Meanwhile at this wedding the entrance was very wide.
photo: TikTok/@odenkjaya_89
It was seen that many guests attended the wedding. It is known that this event occurred in Madura.
This post also leaves netizens with a question mark as to why they chose a cemetery as their wedding location. Even though the tent design is really good. Netizens are also confused about how the entertainment event is going, because of course it would be very impolite to play music over a grave.
"That's what happens when you're having a recital, and then they join in dancing," wrote the account @agungdavid20.
"The decor of the wedding tent is good. A combination of purple and white, but why is the place in a cemetery?," said the account @yusriyudhita.
photo: TikTok/@odenkjaya_89
Actually there is no legal prohibition on holding events near cemeteries. However, in the hadith narrated by Ibn Mas'ud, it is recommended to make a pilgrimage and use graves as a reminder of the afterlife. Therefore, at this moment it is unethical if the grave is used for parties.
However, there are also netizens who understand this action if it is difficult for the event owner to find another place . So they were forced to set up a tent in the middle of the grave. There are also those who think that this is the grave of the bride's family.
"If there really isn't any more space, there's no choice. This is forced," explained the account @andreandre0608.
"Maybe the family grave of his elderly ancestors," said the account @akbarbangkit586.
photo: TikTok/@odenkjaya_89
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @odenkjaya_89 account has gathered 463.6 thousand viewers. Apart from that, there were also 5,360 accounts that gave likes and hundreds of comments.