Brilio.net - Ayu Ting Ting will soon let go of the widow status that has been with her for approximately 10 years. As is known, he had been proposed to by a TNI officer named First Lieutenant Muhammad Fardhana. Ayu and Fardhana met each other in January 2024, through a matchmaking process by the parents of both parties.
Brilio.net reported from Liputan6.com, Thursday (15/2), the singer of the song Palsu Address revealed his feelings after being proposed to by his lover. Currently, Ayu still doesn't seem to believe that she will marry again.
"It's been quite a long time, so it's just like a dream, if someone comes into our lives, it's definitely different, because it's been quite a long time, if you could dismantle it, there would already be a lot of spiders, ha ha," explained the 32-year-old dancer.
He also told about the matchmaking process carried out by his parents. Initially, they were introduced and apparently found a match.
"Yes, it's an arranged marriage, that's right, we were introduced to our parents, if we were to be introduced, it's normal for anyone, it just depends on each of us, whether we can continue or not depends on each of us. Coincidentally, thank God it's suitable so we can continue, " he said.
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However, it turns out that before accepting the proposal from the man with the rank of First Lieutenant, Ayu had a chance to discuss it with Bilqis first. He makes the child's opinion a priority in choosing a life partner.
"Yes, of course there will be a discussion, because after all Bilqis is part of my life, so definitely ask for Bilqis' opinion," he explained.
Ayu Ting Ting realized that Bilqis was growing up. As a parent, Ayu feels the need to involve her daughter in every decision she makes. Moreover, this decision will affect the child's future life.
"Because Bilqis is now 10 years old, going on 11 years old, so she is starting to mature, she can open her heart. One of the reasons is because she loves me, so she wants her mother to be happy," he continued.
photo: Instagram/@ayutingting92
Apart from that, Ayu feels that God has indeed given her a soul mate at the right time. Currently, his only daughter has also started to open her heart.
"The child can be discussed, chatted with, can be asked for input, can give input too, so maybe this is the right thing, when Bilqis understands, she is more mature, so it will be easier to accept," he said.
Even though their engagement ceremony was held behind closed doors on Sunday, February 4 2024, Ayu Ting Ting still chose to keep the wedding date a secret. Of course, Ayu said, Bilqis' involvement in the decision process was a form of appreciation for her daughter's maturity.