Brilio.net - Longing for children in marriage is the dream of all married couples, including Dhini Aminarti and Dimas Seto. Married since 2009, unfortunately Dhini Aminarti and Dimas Seto have not been given children until now.
Not yet blessed with a child, makes the public give a number of stigmas to this celebrity couple. One of the stigmas that is often discussed is that a woman is not perfect if she does not have a child. That is what Dhini Aminarti conveyed through the TikTok account Daniel Mananta Network, some time ago.
"With the stigma that people say, if we are not pregnant, we have not given birth, we cannot feel like a perfect woman," said Dini, quoted by brilio.net from the TikTok account @danielmanantanetwork, Tuesday (3/9).
photo: TikTok/@danielmanantanetwork
Accepting the stigma, Dhini Aminarti answered with an open heart. She said she would try to always learn.
"As time goes by. I always learn, always try to be close to people who are in my environment. God willing, I think it's good, who can really support me," he said.
Through the video that lasted a few minutes, Dhini also dismissed all the stigma. According to her, one cannot judge a woman's perfection just from whether she has given birth to children or not.
"How do we know she truly became a perfect woman? By giving birth, by being pregnant, but it turns out she failed to educate the child. In our case, the first madrasah (education) is the mother," said Dhini.
photo: TikTok/@danielmanantanetwork
He also added a rather sharp answer. According to him, the responsibility of educating children is an equally important point. Therefore, judging the perfection of a woman cannot be done only from giving birth or not.
"Because he cannot educate his children well and his responsibility will not only be here," added Dhini.
Dhini emphasized that heavy responsibilities are not only borne in the world, but are carried to the afterlife . This answer immediately became the focus of netizens.
"They must have forgotten that Aisyah, Rasullah's wife, doesn't have children but she is guaranteed heaven," wrote a comment on the account @antin umma.
"Don't assume that a child's good or bad actions are the mother's fault... let's try to be better women," wrote the account @Galeri JengTari.
"What I understand is that Ms. Dhini is a perfect woman, not just a mother who is pregnant and gives birth, but also has an obligation to educate her children," added the comment from the account @Leni Rosita.
"My mother was married from the age of 20 until now she is 60 years old and has no biological children, I am her only adopted child. Until the end of my father's life, mother was still loyal," added the writing of the account @Mamanya Zea.