foto: TikTok/@syazwani_mirabilia
This woman's decision to be polygamous made other women's hearts cut. However, they also respect the decision.
19 Februari 2024 15:45
Brilio.net - Polygamy is a problem that women always want to avoid. They don't want to be involved in this relationship, because they don't want to have to share their husband with another woman. Polygamy has different legal status in various countries. In some places, such as India, Malaysia, the Philippines, Sri Lanka and Singapore, polygamy is only legal for Muslims. Meanwhile, in countries such as Nigeria and South Africa, polygamous marriages are legal according to customary law and for Muslims.
The decision to polygamy is certainly based on many factors. Generally, the reason men practice polygamy is as an effort to prevent adultery. But of course this cannot be taken for granted by women. As a legal wife, it is difficult for her husband to accept polygamy.
However, this is different from the story that has recently been widely discussed on social media. In the upload of the TikTok account @syazwani_mirabilia, it actually shows a rare phenomenon, where a wife is willing to be polygamous and she even helps her husband prepare for his second marriage.
Willing to be polygamous and help decorate her husband's wedding
TikTok/@syazwani_mirabilia
In the upload, you can see a woman and her husband decorating the wedding aisle. In her statement, she said that she was preparing for her husband's wedding. Of course this is difficult for other women to believe and accept.
Willing to be polygamous and help decorate her husband's wedding
TikTok/@syazwani_mirabilia
This woman, who is familiarly known as Wani, is skilled at decorating aisles, because she has a wedding decoration service called Mirabilia Concept. At her husband's happy moment, she stepped in directly to take care of her husband's wedding, one of which was decorating the wedding aisle.
The decoration results are quite interesting with a semi-garden concept, white sofas and boards with the names of the husband and his second wife. There are also flowers surrounding the edge of the white sofa.
Wani's action really made many people shake their heads. In the midst of the increasing number of women rejecting polygamy, he accepted it with great heart. Not a few people were amazed and praised his attitude. Moreover, she also got along well with the woman her husband married.
Wani's big heart was based on a reason that he thought was very important. As a woman who feels she has shortcomings, Wani doesn't want to be selfish. She understands that her husband wants children. Even though she had tried to do a check-up and ask for medical help, Wani could not fulfill her husband's wish.
Like other women, making the decision to allow her husband to remarry was not an easy matter for Wani. Even after her husband married, Wani's heart was broken. She said she had asked for separation after three days of her husband's second marriage.
However, Wani was not given permission to separate, instead her husband was fair and gave Wani the same amount of attention. During 12 years of marriage, Wani felt that her husband really looked after her and accepted her, which was the reason why she stayed.
Maybe many people ask why not just look for adopted children instead of agreeing to polygamy, but Wani and her husband are committed to having their own biological children somehow. During the 5 months that her husband was in polygamy, Wani began to feel calm and comfortable because she considered the woman her husband married as her own sister.
So Wani took the initiative to make wedding decorations for the two of them. Wani stated that when you become a family you have to make each other happy.
Wani hopes that anyone who sees the video will give him the best prayers and not make negative comments about what happened to Wani, because he is now sincere and accepts it. Polygamy is not acceptable for all women, but Wani has proven that she can make peace with her and her husband's decision.
Willing to be polygamous and help decorate her husband's wedding
TikTok/@syazwani_mirabilia
This video was watched 1.3 million times, liked 32.2 thousand times, and received various comments as many as 1991 responses when this article was written. Not only sharing the moment when decorating the wedding of her husband and second wife, Wani also shared photos together with her husband and second wife. The three of them looked so harmonious.
This moment received a lot of attention from netizens who felt annoyed when they were in that position, but there were also those who applauded Wani's attitude.
"If my husband asks to remarry, I ask for all the inheritance + land certificates in my name when I want to lose," said the account @kenzovann
"Even though the shortcomings are mine, by Allah I never want to be married," said the account @iparkharu
"This is true, you are great, I hope you become a woman in heaven, okay?" responded the account @iqat23
"My heart isn't as big as my sister's, I'd rather let her go if I want to, there's no reason to stay because my children, my children are taking everything with me," said the account @bubulhyzakharani
"You're really great, bro... you're in good spirits... good people will always be happy... if I feel like I'm not strong enough, I can't do it. When I meet my ex on the street, it feels like a meltdown," said the account @ziezia
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
