foto: TikTok/@Tehsari31
Brilio.net - Losing a child certainly leaves a very heavy blow for a mother. This sense of loss leaves deep wounds that are difficult to heal. Often a mother is asked to accept her child's departure. But no matter what, this will be difficult to do because the mother is the one who gives birth, breastfeeds and raises the child.
That's what a woman named Sari felt. Through her upload on her TikTok account, Sari revealed her sad story of leaving her child forever. He also often immortalizes the moment when he visits the princess's grave to relieve his longing.
It is known that this mother of two lost her eldest daughter several months ago due to an accident. Sari revealed that the princess's life could not be saved when she fell from the motorbike. Right now I'm just trying to let it go.
photo: TikTok/@Tehsari31
If he were still alive, Sari said that his child would enter high school this year. Because she missed her so much, Sari chose to often come to her son's grave. He also brought several items to cure his homesickness.
Even though he has died, Sari still buys school uniforms for his children. He then took the uniform and placed it on top of the child's grave. For Sari, perhaps this is a way to please and remember her child.
photo: TikTok/@Tehsari31
In the caption it is stated that Sari hopes her child can wear it. But unfortunately, fate said otherwise. His son died before entering high school.
" Honey, mom bought school clothes for you. You want to go to high school. Wear them. You'll definitely be happy when you go to school ," he wrote in the caption, reported by brilio.net from TikTok/@Tehsari31 on Tuesday (16/7).
However, Sari's actions actually reaped pros and cons from social media users. Many people think that instead of putting their clothes in the grave, it would be better to use them for people who need them more.
photo: TikTok/@Tehsari31
" Just feel sorry for the people who need it. Or for children who are the same age as your children. If you die, you won't be alive anymore. Just pray, " said the account @mmbeyan.
" That's not the concept ma'am, if you want to give a child who no longer has love to someone who needs alms, add prayer, " explained the account @123_.
Responding to this, Sari gave a striking answer. It turns out that after being taken to the grave, he immediately handed the clothes over to the orphans. He also realized that there were people who needed it more and hoped that the clothes would be useful.
" Yes, I immediately gave it all to the orphans so they could use it ," answered Sari.
photo: TikTok/@Tehsari31
This video also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Apart from disagreeing with her actions, many also supported Sari. Netizens also understand that giving up on children is not an easy act.
" Ma'am, be patient, I hope you are always healthy and always give good things to your children. Your children must be very happy to see their mother bringing school supplies for them ," said the account @charlos.
" Do whatever it takes to express your longing, ma'am.. may you always be strengthened. Heaven will be for your child.. amen ," wrote the account @dianferawati.
" Oh God... I'm so sorry to see... give this mother patience, God, " said the account @lilissyafila.
" It's okay, ma'am, I swear, let out what's in your heart, ma'am. Do what can heal you a little. Cheer up, mother, your child will definitely be proud of you ," commented the account @anthy_moreno.
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