Brilio.net - Someone may feel sad if they find out that it was not their biological mother who raised them all this time, but adoptive parents. This will definitely shake their hearts and change their perception of their family. This fact can trigger various emotions, such as confusion, sadness, disappointment, or even anger.
That's what the woman in the video uploaded by the account @yourgirlfwend__ is feeling. A woman named Windi has just learned that her mother and father, who raised her all this time, are not her biological parents . This fact was only discovered after Windi saw the letter and statement regarding the adoption of the child.
"How do you feel after knowing the whole truth? The truth about 'I'm not your mother's biological child'," wrote Windi in the video, quoted by brilio.net from @yourgirlfwend__ on Monday (27/5).
photo: TikTok/@yourgirlfwend__
The contents of the letter read that the first party (biological parents) handed over a 3 month old girl named Windi Nadianti Putri to the second party (foster parents). Meanwhile, the second party will be responsible for the child's entire life.
The letter was signed by 6 people, plus 4 witnesses. The signing of the letter occurred on April 9 2000 in Cibanteng Village, Parungponteng, Tasikmalaya.
"Today the 1st party handed over a girl child to be adopted (adopted) by the second party and the second party is responsible for the child's living needs," the letter stated.
photo: TikTok/@yourgirlfwend__
After 24 years had passed, Windi admitted to experiencing extraordinary emotional turmoil. Sadness, shock, surprise, and other emotional stress mixed into one. Windi also wondered why for more than 20 years, he had never been told anything about this.
Not wanting to be left in turmoil, he tried to find his biological parents. Fortunately, Windi was able to find her biological parents, Toni and Isoh. Without thinking, he immediately took the opportunity to visit his parents' residence.
photo: TikTok/@yourgirlfwend__
There finally the parents and child met. Windi asked many questions. He finally got the answer that Windi had to be adopted by someone else because of economic conditions. They want Windi to be able to live a decent life. However, he does not hate his parents at all.
"I'm not angry, I don't hate them at all. The reason I gave to my current parents is not because they don't love them. But they want their children to have a decent life," he wrote.
Even though he already knows where he is, he will still love his adoptive parents. Because it was her adoptive parents who took care of her and looked after Windi's education from the age of 3 months to the adult she is now.
photo: TikTok/@yourgirlfwend__
This story went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many people were moved when they read Windi's story. Who would have thought, quite a few netizens would have similar stories, you know.
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @yourgirlfwend__ account has gathered 612,200 views. Apart from that, there were also 35,600 accounts that gave likes and 1,055 comments
"If you hug far away, you're great at being able to make peace with the situation, btw, I'm also an adopted child. The difference is that my late father and mother didn't tell me about their biggest fear of losing me until in the end I was the one who lost them, but that's okay," said the account @bubucan.
"Hello sis, our story is from high school, I've known those biological parents since middle school. Actually, it's a really big plot twist because it turns out they're still in the same neighborhood and I often meet too," said the account @fttzhra_.
"Sis, I'm the same way. I only found out that I was an adopted child after 1 week of getting married & I was immediately met by my biological family. The reason was that during the crisis, I couldn't buy milk and I had economic problems," said the account @nisadipsa.
"Hello, brother, I also have the same fate as you, I'm not the biological child of my current parents, but my story is different, because in the past it wasn't allowed for you to be with my biological parents, my biological parents' apps weren't tied to it," commented the account @hnn_nn2, " commented the account @hnn_nn2.
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