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Brilio.net - No one can predict the dynamics of life. There are always events that make you happy and also sad. As experienced by Kiwil and his first ex-wife Rohimah Alli .
Recently, Kiwil's name has again stolen the public's attention because it is known that he is struggling with the disease he is suffering from. For almost a year now, he has been fighting diabetes, blood clots, and hernia.
It seems that Kiwil is not the only one who has experienced the sorrow of life's fate. Now it is the turn of his first ex-wife, Rohimah Alli, whose health condition is also in the public spotlight. How could it not be, Rohimah seemed to be unable to walk and even had to wear a diaper to defecate.
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Instead of feeling happiness in her life after divorcing Kiwil. Rohimah Alli actually experienced a bitter life because she had a motorcycle accident in 2021 which made her unable to walk. Even so, she is currently undergoing treatment for her legs which are still difficult to move until now.
According to him, after the divorce and the accident, various things in his life were hampered. Starting from daily activities to earning a living was difficult to do. Not expecting a trial like this, he remained optimistic about living his life.
" With conditions like this, who wouldn't think that way? Moreover, it was beyond my expectations for the divorce ," said Rohimah, brilio.net quoted from YouTube STARPRO Indonesia, Sunday (15/12)
" When I had this accident in November 2021, everything was really hampered ," he explained.
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" My expectation by divorcing Bang Kiwil was that I would still have a career. I am a teacher, and I still have a job. So everything is hampered ," explained Rohimah.
Rohimah further explained that a broken leg due to an accident made it difficult for her to do various basic activities, even defecating, requiring help from others. It is no wonder that she has to wear diapers in her daily life.
" I use pampers. So I use the pampers and slide them around, then wipe them and just move them and hold my feet ," said Rohimah.
The reason she wore diapers was because there was no one she could ask for help to dispose of her waste. Although there was an assistant, if the assistant was busy, it was also difficult to ask for help. Like it or not, Kiwil's first ex-wife had to defecate in a diaper.
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" I just want to go to the toilet, who peed? Who took this chamber pot, whose potty is under it? Even if the assistant is busy, it will be difficult ," Rohimah continued.
Then, Rohimah also explained that for three years with this concerning condition, she could only stay in bed. Moreover, her leg was broken so that for the healing process it had to be placed like that.
" This can't be lifted. If it's like this (placed), it'll just stay like this until tomorrow morning, this flat foot ," he added.
Despite what she experienced, Rohimah just surrendered to God and hoped that only she experienced the disaster. In addition, she also often reminded her children to drive carefully.
" Well, in a disaster, we don't know what will happen. That's why I told my children, when you come home from here or want to go here, don't speed on your motorbike ," he said.
" We were careful driving the vehicle, but there were other people who hit us or whatever, so I always prayed, oh God, let it be just me who experiences this. Not my children, not my family, because it's really unpleasant ," he explained.
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As a single parent with limited physical condition, it is certainly heartbreaking for Rohimah. Moreover, her career as a teacher is also lost, as a result she is only at home to heal the broken leg she experienced.
" Moreover, I am a single parent like this, having a leg like this for three years. It's not like it's been a short time, three years is a long time ," he explained.
" All my careers have disappeared, like I used to teach, I can't anymore. The most I can do is just hang around at home ," he regretted.
On the same occasion, Rohimah also said that until now she chose to accept the destiny that had been outlined. Rather than stressing out because she was sad thinking about her fate, it was better to accept all of this reality. She was optimistic that maybe Allah was asking her to stay at home for now.
" It's all destiny, my life's path. So I don't stress myself out too much. I'm sad, but maybe God is telling me to stay at home for now, " he explained resignedly.
(brl/lea)
