foto: Instagram/@renieffendi24
Brilio.net - Ria Ricis and Teuku Ryan's divorce is still a hot topic on various social media platforms. The end of the marriage of this couple, which was blessed with one person, became more of a topic of conversation, when the divorce file containing a series of reasons why Ria Ricis sued Teuku Ryan for divorce spread on social media.
This news also made Doctor Richard Lee's wife, Doctor Reni Effendi, also comment. Through her upload on Instagram, Doctor Reni invited her followers to take lessons from RR and TR's divorce. Even though he didn't use his full name, it was easy for netizens to guess who the figure Doctor Reni was referring to.
According to the doctor, from the divorce case, he learned a lot of things, one of which was women's very sharp memory. Reflecting on the scattered divorce suit files, this beauty doctor is of the opinion that the cause of TR and RR's separation was a lack of communication.
photo: Instagram/@renieffendi24
"When a woman is hurt, it turns out her memory is very detailed, you know. It's like a photograph, so she can express what's wrong with it in the form of a sheet, maybe 100 pages at a time, right? And it's very detailed, you know. In fact, that's impossible or not. "The man is aware of it," said doctor Richard Lee's wife in her upload, quoted by brilio.net from the Instagram account @renieffendi24, Thursday (9/5).
Doctor Reni suspected that the lack of communication between the couple was the cause of the separation. Not to mention, he thinks that RR and TR still have equally high egos.
"When I look, the women here are confused, the men are really indifferent. So they will never meet," said Dr. Reni Effendi.
Doctor Reni Effendi added that this problem is actually very common in domestic relationships . Moreover, women really like to keep their feelings bottled up until they become icebergs and like time bombs that can explode at any time.
According to him, couples need time to have a deep talk. By having deep talks, women feel appreciated and not lonely. Apart from that, this deep talk moment can also make men understand women's feelings.
"Sometimes women don't need abundant wealth, but communication is very, very important for women," said Dr. Reni.
Apart from that, Doctor Reni also touched on Ria Ricis and Teuku Ryan who were still clarifying things with each other and making their problems public consumption material. Doctor Reni also regretted this, because it seemed sad.
At the end of the video, this doctor and entrepreneur gives advice to his followers so that their household runs harmoniously. Doctor Reni Effendi said that every couple can lower their ego a lot and practice loving sincerely.
"Sometimes we love our partner but sometimes it's not very sincere. We expect something from our partner," said Doctor Reni Effendi.
More importantly, household problems should not become public consumption. Doctor Reni Effendi seemed to be teasing Ria Ricis, who often used her problems as content. He also remembered the message from his parents about never taking household problems out of the house.
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"No matter how big your household problems are, never leave the house, once you set foot in the house the problem will never be resolved," concluded Dr. Reni.
According to him, if household problems or storms are brought out it will lead to divorce. The upload received a positive response. Apparently quite a few netizens agree with Doctor Reni's views.
" It's really true... Everyone at the start of marriage definitely experiences something like that. As long as there's no domestic violence or cheating, everything should still be able to be communicated well, " said @sasantipertiwii.
" Wow, I really agree with your thoughts, doc, " said @afifaaah_peh.
" It's true, doc, communication is really important ," wrote @rynynura13.
" Permission to repost, doc, because everything the doctor says is related to life, " concluded @oktavianty.vivi.5.
(brl/mal)
