Brilio.net - Maia Estianty now has three grown sons, Al Ghazali, El Rumi, and Dul Jaelani. It is known that Maia has also given her blessing to Al, El and Dul to propose to their respective choices.
As is known, Al and Alyssa Daguise have been in a relationship for six years. Likewise, the relationship between Dul and Tissa Biani has been going on for 4 years. Meanwhile, El and Syifa Hadju who just went public are also rumored to be getting married soon.
Even so, Maia does not want to push Al, El, and Dul to get married soon. The wife of Irwan Mussry instead emphasized that there are several important things that her three sons must consider before entering into a lifelong commitment.
She said this while chatting on her YouTube channel with Melaney Ricardo. At that time, Maia left a message for her three children before deciding to get married.
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First, Maia emphasized the importance of sincere commitment in marriage. She reminded her sons not to be tempted to have affairs or have relationships with other women after committing to marriage.
"Don't ever commit and keep going left and right, still wanting to cheat here and there, please, please don't," said Maia, quoted by brilio.net from YouTube MAIA ALELDUL TV on Monday (9/2).
"If you still can't have one, it's better not to get married first rather than hurting a woman's heart. I said that," he added.
This message is related to Maia's personal experience of having failed in her marriage with Ahmad Dhani. By giving this advice, Maia hopes that her children will not experience similar failures in their marriages.
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In addition to loyalty, Maia also emphasized the importance of financial responsibility that must be shouldered by Al, El, and Dul when they get married. She reminded that as men, they must be ready to become heads of households who are responsible for their wives and children in the future.
"Secondly, you must be ready to earn a living for your wife and children. If you decide to get married, you must be able to support your wife and children," explained Maia.
Not only about material things, Maia also emphasized that Al, El, and Dul must be able to be good role models for their families. As family leaders, they must be ready to take full responsibility for the welfare of their wives and children.
"Third, if for example you want to get married but you can't set an example for your wife and children, don't do that either. You have to change. If you want to get married, it means you have to be ready for all of that, right," added Ahmad Dhani's ex-wife.
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Unfortunately, it is still unknown who will marry first between Al, El, and Dul. However, Ahmad Dhani had mentioned that his three children would marry next year. It's just that the time was not held at the same time.
(brl/lut)
