Brilio.net - Often the standard of a woman's beauty is judged by her body shape, which is slim, tall, white, with a sharp nose and straight hair. So, if women do not have these criteria, they will be ridiculed by their peers and those around them.
This is what the TikTok celebrity with the account @rubahweh feels. Because she has teeth that appear to be progressing as a result of having braces, this TikTok celebrity known as Ruby has become the subject of bullying from people around her. In fact, quite a few people give him a nickname like a snake.
photo: TikTok/@rubahweh
But instead of getting angry, Ruby responded calmly. Through uploads on TikTok, he also shared his experience of being ridiculed by people around him. It is said that many people feel cheated when they see themselves from behind compared to the front.
photo: TikTok/@rubahweh
"I used to walk and face backwards. Then it's normal for people to call 'hi deck' or 'hi beautiful', right? Then there are also those who call 'hi beautiful, where are you going?' "Then I faced them. 'Oh my God, I thought there was a beautiful girl,' he said," explained Ruby, as reported by brilio.net , Tuesday (25/6).
Ruby admitted that at first she felt hurt by what people around her said regarding her condition. But slowly, he came to terms with it. Now, Ruby actually laughs if someone claims to be deceived when they see her from behind.
photo: TikTok/@rubahweh
"Actually, it used to hurt, but now it's okay. That's the story," he explained with a laugh.
In another upload, this long-haired woman said that she doesn't need other people's approval to be considered beautiful. For her, beauty is a matter of self-confidence that she builds.
"Actually, we don't need other people's recognition, the most important thing is recognition from ourselves. It's like, in my little heart, I feel beautiful. Yes, that means I am indeed beautiful," said Ruby.
If in the end other people don't think she's beautiful, it's not a big problem for her. Because people's opinions cannot be generalized. The most important thing for her is that she feels beautiful and believes in it. Other people's opinions will not influence her assessment of the beauty standards she has built.
photo: TikTok/@rubahweh
"For example, if other people think I'm not beautiful, that's not a problem. Because people have different opinions. People's eyes are different. What's important is ourselves. If we feel beautiful, then we're beautiful," she concluded.
No wonder his uploads have attracted a lot of public attention. Many people praise Ruby for the self-confidence she has built. They also think that not many people can make peace and have self-confidence like Ruby.
"You're really great, bro... tutorials so you don't get confused by what people are saying, right? I'd probably be depressed if I digitized for months," explained @yunsu_1997
"I'm really confident about respecting my sister," added @madhtyy
"Very funny, you are great for making peace with yourself," said @xiyaojun