Brilio.net - Marriage is certainly a happy moment for those who experience it. How come? There a romantic bond will occur between the couple. Apart from that, the bride and groom and their families also felt happy because they were given the opportunity to witness the moment.
However, marriage is not always a happy moment, this was felt by this groom. On the big day , the bride's party didn't come at all. The story was sad and immortalized in a TikTok video posted by the account @dwitrisiana
Dwi, as the man's family member, admitted that everything had been neatly planned. They chose to get married in a building with luxurious white decorations. In the middle there is a table which is intended to be used for bridal ceremonies. However, it turned out that the table was not used at all.
" A contract table without a contract process, " wrote Dwi in the caption.
photo: TikTok/@dwitrisiana
The wedding which took place in Banjarmasin City was initially forced to be postponed because it turned out that it was a request from the bride. However, this is certainly burdensome for the men because the preparations for the event are almost 100% complete. Moreover, news of requests for postponement tends to be very tight. The wedding will take place on Saturday morning while the woman will only be notified on Friday afternoon.
" The decorations were installed on Thursday, the catering was paid off, all the vendors asked for payment on Saturday morning, " he said.
What is no less crucial according to Dwi is that all invitations have been distributed. They couldn't possibly inform the invitees about this event. Because of this, the man's family decided to continue the event.
photo: TikTok/@dwitrisiana
It was seen that on the D day the invited guests were present. However, according to Dwi, almost everyone shed tears after hearing this news. Many of them do not accept treatment from women.
" Thank God you came. But no one didn't cry. In fact, the families encouraged the guests, " he wrote in the caption.
Because the event continued without the bride, the groom was alone at the altar. However, many friends and relatives cheered him on and asked him to take photos. Even to entertain himself, the groom also sang at the event.
Actually, the reason for postponing the wedding was because of something unexpected. The bride's grandmother died so they could not attend this event. However, it turned out that the grandmother was buried on Wednesday while the event was on Saturday.
photo: TikTok/@dwitrisiana
However, in order not to disrupt the carefully prepared event, the men suggested that only women and their guardians attend. It doesn't matter if there is no extended family. Because this event also has a schedule ordered from the headmaster. However, the woman did not even pay attention to this input.
" Still ignored and still not coming. Imagine how our family faced the headman, telling him what happened, " he said.
Due to the absence of the woman, the groom took steps that were quite surprising. They canceled a wedding plan that had been made. So the man and woman do not get married.
For the building costs, let them be borne by the men. Dwi admitted that he only asked for the dowry money and gifts to be returned because his marriage was annulled. This is quite sad for the extended family.
This video story also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Of course, apart from being surprised, they also provide encouragement about the problems they face. Not a few people also have similar experiences.
" There was also a time when her friend's child was staying 2 days after her grandmother's wedding ceremony died. However, the contract was still carried out in front of the grandmother's body before burial, that is Javanese custom. Sorry if this is wrong, " said the account @pudingsalju1
" Allah will change the best for you, bro. Be patient, " said the spirit of the account @hanadelima4
" God willing, there is a bigger plan that Allah has planned. That means he is not the best for Rio. Keep your spirits up, brother, " said the account @fataisy Aisy
" Hopefully you and your family will broaden your sense of patience. Hopefully one day you will find a much better partner, " commented the account @ani.
photo: TikTok/@dwitrisiana
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @dwitrisiana account has gathered 595,700 viewers. Apart from that, there were also 12,400 accounts that gave likes and 1,320 comments.