Brilio.net - Since Babe Cabita's passing on April 9, 2024, Fati Indraloka, the wife of the deceased, admitted that she still feels deep sadness because she was left by the man she loved so much. In fact, Fati said that the wound would leave a mark and would never go away.
Currently, Fati continues to strengthen her heart so that she can sincerely accept the destiny that has been outlined in her life. Of course, so that she can get blessings and her late husband can rest in peace in the grave.
For Fati who has known Babe Cabita for 12 years and finally became a husband and wife and was blessed with two children, it is not easy to say that she is fine. Moreover, with so many struggles they have gone through so far.
photo: Instagram/@fatiyw
In her recent interview on Deddy Corbuzier's podcast, Fati revealed how difficult it was to live without Babe Cabita by her side. Fati shared that losing her husband was not only a heavy blow to her, but also a trauma for their children.
As Fati told, her son Bambino, began to show signs of trauma that had not been noticed before. Fati said that Bambino used to really like omelettes and durian, Babe's favorite foods . However, after his father left, Bambino suddenly didn't want to touch those foods anymore.
Fati only realized this change after five months had passed. One day, while they were driving, Fati tried to ask Bambino why he no longer liked omelettes and durian.
"Well, that's it, so yesterday it was only after 5 months that this child, Babe used to eat omelet, Babe ate omelet every day, so he always wanted omelet, and Babe also liked durian," said Fati, quoted by brilio.net from Deddy Corbuzier's YouTube channel, Tuesday (3/9).
"Bambino also likes durian, and only yesterday, how come this child was offered omelet and durian, he never wanted it, he never wanted it, uncle," said Fati.
photo: YouTube/Deddy Corbuzier
At first, Bambino was silent, but then he admitted that he felt nauseous if he had to eat it. When Fati asked further, Bambino innocently said that he was afraid of missing his father if he ate the same food.
"Bambino, how come you never like it anymore? You used to like it, meaning when papa eats it, Bambino likes it," asked Fati.
"No, Bambino will throw up if he eats that," said Fati, imitating her child's answer.
This reaction shows how deeply the loss of Babe affected Bambino. Despite being so young, Bambino apparently harbored deep feelings of longing and sadness, to the point where he didn't want to remember his father through little things like their favorite foods.
photo: YouTube/Deddy Corbuzier
Bambino's feelings became more apparent when he refused to discuss or even look at anything related to Babe. At night, he often turned over and covered his face with a pillow, as if he wanted to escape the painful reality.
Fati realized that even though her child was only five and a half years old, the memories of Babe were so strong and deep. This shows how big a role the father played in his children's lives.