Brilio.net - In Indonesia, making uniforms for Eid for large families is a tradition and is common. A few days before Eid, the materials and designs are prepared so they can be sewn well in advance. This not only fulfills the need for new clothes during Eid , but there is a deeper meaning related to the context of togetherness, cohesiveness and family unity.
This woman's family also did the same thing. The family has already planned the budget and design of the clothes they will make for Eid. Instead of being happy, this woman was actually sad because she admitted that her husband's extended family had not invited her to make these clothes. He even saw details of conversations about clothes in the family WA group.
It appears that there were 12 women, 13 men and 7 children on the list to make these clothes. The price for each category is different, starting from women's clothes in the range of IDR 165 thousand to IDR 55 thousand for men's clothes. The total cost spent on these clothes was IDR 3,535,000. However, on the list, there is no name of the woman.
According to his confession, other relatives were invited to make clothes for this Eid . Meanwhile, he was not informed at all by his in-laws and relatives. He only found out about this when the plan was final. He could only surrender.
"Doesn't it hurt, my husband's extended family sews uniforms, while my in-laws and other relatives don't talk to me or invite them. Next thing I know, theirs is ready," she wrote in the caption.
photo: TikTok/@langitbirruuu
The husband of course asked the woman why her name was not on the list. However, the wife answered honestly that she had not been invited at all. Because of that, her husband immediately asked one of his family members, namely his aunt, about this.
After further investigation, it turned out that this woman was not invited to make Eid uniforms because she was heavily pregnant. Because of this, her aunt thought that it was impossible for this woman to go on the tour because she was pregnant. This woman will stay at home and therefore it is not a problem if she is not in uniform.
"It's okay to stay at home without uniforms," he said.
Because she was already wet and had not been invited, this woman could only surrender. He finally made clothes for
This video also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many of course gave support to the woman so she wouldn't be sad about this. It turns out that several netizens also talked about the similar conditions they were experiencing.
"I share a house with my parents-in-law and sister-in-law, they make twin clothes, but I have never been invited to twin. Once my child was invited to twin with them, but I protested to my husband and told him to return it. Let my child twin with his mother," wrote the account @mamskey
"My brother-in-law's grandson wants to have a birthday, the others bought him uniform t-shirts. My family doesn't. I don't have a problem, I just feel sorry for my son, he's starting to understand," said the account @meca_me
"I don't care. What's important is that I have a lot of money. My husband is always on my side, the world will be safe," said the account @linka17
"The pain is the same as when my husband's family created a group without me. My husband was included in the group but he chose to leave his family group. Until now he has not been included in the group," said the account @salsabil.
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @langitbirruuu account has gathered 810 thousand viewers. Apart from that, there were 10,400 accounts that gave likes and 1,312 comments.