Brilio.net - Polygamy is a complex and controversial topic. Polygamy is considered a form of patriarchy in marriage. Patriarchy is a social construction that places men as the main authority in social organizations, including the family.
In patriarchal societies, women are often placed as second class. Polygamy strengthens this view, because it places women as property of men in the family. It's not surprising that many women refuse to be married.
The reason is that not a few people think that polygamy can create inequality in marriage, especially if the husband is unable to treat his wives fairly. Not to mention that polygamy often creates emotional uncertainty for wives. They worry about feelings of jealousy, inequality, and instability in relationships.
While most women reject polygamy, there are quite a few who willingly accept this condition. As has recently been busy on social media. Reported by brilio.net from TikTok @ginaagustin31, a woman shows something different. The woman named Gina revealed that she was willing to allow her husband to remarry.
Initially, Gina felt very deep pain. As a wife, of course she has feelings of worry, jealousy and inner torment. However, he tried to make peace with the situation, Gina sorted out his heart.
Interestingly, Gina not only watched, she was even involved in helping her husband's second wedding succeed.
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There are things that are enough to make the eyes of other women out there widen. The reason is that Gina can accept the woman who becomes her husband's second wife well. They even often spend time together, walking together with their husband. This family seems very harmonious.
They got along so well, Gina and her husband's second wife had several quality times together. They do treatment together. This intimacy is again reflected in the box photo between the two. As women, they also enjoy shopping together.
It didn't stop there, the relationship between these two people became even closer after they had a desire to open a business together. They finally decided to take a course that supports their business plan. Both of them intend to open a cake business.
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After several trials, the 2 women felt confident about starting their business. Initially, the cakes they made were left at the shop in the complex where they lived. However, it turned out that many people were interested in the cake, so they decided to use the Pre Order (PO) system.
His business ran smoothly, and he made a decent profit. In order to grow further, they expand their target market through online sales. The shop is named 2 Ratu.
"Because we both want to be queens for our future husbands in heaven," he said, explaining the reason for naming the shop.
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This video also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Even though they agree and are successful in running a business together, it turns out that this action actually reaps the pros and cons of netizens. There are those who applaud the big heart of the first wife. There are also those who will not be strong if treated like that.
"My husband also wants to have two wives, I'll give him permission, but on the condition that I also have to remarry," said the account @leobarcystalia
"Once I told my husband to get married again for 11 years and I wasn't pregnant yet but I didn't want to be married and told him to let me go but my husband didn't want to and said," story from the @laras account
"Ma'am, you're great to be able to be this patient. If I were in sis's position, it would be a different story. I just want to look for another door to enter heaven. I hope sis is always healthy," said the account @nengyyahshop
"I used to dream that we could get along like that and continue to help each other love each other, in fact, until now we haven't gotten married," said the account @lenterahati670.
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From the time the video was posted until this article was written, the @ginaagustin31 account has gathered 1 million views. Apart from that, there were also 67,100 accounts that gave likes and 3144 comments.