Brilio.net - In a romantic relationship, marriage is the last resort for some couples. Not only does it unite two people, but it also connects two families with different traditions and backgrounds. So, it is very important to maintain good relations between families to create harmony.
It turns out not everyone realizes that. This was felt by a woman who shared her experience via social media recently. The woman regretted the unpleasant attitude of her future brother-in-law. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @libranovaaa
The woman admitted that she was engaged and would marry her future husband. On the 1st day of the wedding, the house will be decorated as it should be. The prospective husband's brother acts as the person in charge of the wedding decorations.
photo: TikTok/@libranovaaa
This woman doubted her future brother-in-law's attitude towards her and her family. This woman with the TikTok account @libranovaaa was not invited to communicate at all during the decoration installation. Even though at that time there was a mother, sister and other family members at home.
When he finished decorating the decorations, let alone chatting for a while, the word goodbye didn't even come out of his future brother-in-law's mouth. The future brother-in-law just went home. This certainly leaves a question mark, especially according to the woman, she has served with all her heart.
Instead of feeling even more uncomfortable, the woman plans to tell her brother-in-law's attitude to her future husband. However, the answer from her future husband was unexpected. He felt that the woman was actually insulting his brother. This case actually made him decide to cancel the marriage.
photo: TikTok/@libranovaaa
The woman certainly felt very, very devastated. Because, everything has been prepared perfectly. In fact, during the annulment process the man's family was not present at all. This problem was raised by someone else. The problem became even more complicated when the mother of the prospective groom stated that he did not approve. Finally, this marriage was completely annulled.
"I don't know what he was thinking. Even though a small problem could turn out like this," he said in the caption.
A few days after the cancellation, the groom-to-be still wanted to fix everything. He came back to the woman's house to have a good talk. But it turned out that the marriage was still canceled because the man's mother remained firm in her stance of not approving it.
"Why only now, ma'am, if you don't approve, why do you have to get engaged?" he said
The groom-to-be was hospitalized and hospitalized when this problem occurred. However, the decision was still unanimous. In fact, the mother of the prospective groom asked her son to block all of the woman's social media accounts so that they could no longer communicate.
photo: TikTok/@libranovaaa
This post also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Of course, many people also provide support so that the woman can stay strong through the day. Netizens also said that the exams before the wedding were really tough.
"Ma'am, the test of marriage is indeed difficult. But based on the story, sis, that's the case. Let it go, sis, it really hurts. But it will hurt more when you're married but the man's family isn't," said the account @novitasariqq_
"Marry a man whose family accepts you well, be grateful because you were given instructions before the wedding," wrote the account @bby_child
"Cheer up sis, maybe this is the path that Allah has given you, believe me, if you get married before you find out that the man's family doesn't really approve of it, it's going to hurt," said the account @karimatus96
"At first it hurt, bro, as time goes by, it will definitely be replaced with a better one. My crt used to feel like it was going down, but it's gone with time, honestly," commented the account @yykrahayu1919
photo: TikTok/@libranovaaa
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @libranovaaa account has gathered 24,400 viewers. Apart from that, there are also hundreds of accounts that have given likes and several comments.