Brilio.net - After getting married, the hope is of course to be able to live happily with your partner and also to build togetherness with the whole family, both from the wife and husband. But in fact, not all couples go through life smoothly. There are problems to be faced, even the complexity of having to face the hatred of in-laws .
Many say that in-laws are enemies that are sometimes difficult to avoid. Both women and men try as much as possible to avoid conflict with their in-laws. Even before marriage, there are couples who have agreed to live together, not at their in-laws' house.
The complicated life of having to face the anger of her in-laws was felt by a woman whose story was shared via the TikTok account @aniynew05. As reported by brilio.net from the upload, the woman whose name we will call Ani said that she was kicked out by her in-laws, even though she was heavily pregnant.
Not only Ani, her husband also felt his mother's anger. Both were asked to leave the house. The mother's way of doing this was quite cruel, where she threw away her daughter-in-law and child's clothes.
evicted by my in-laws when I was heavily pregnant
TikTok/@aniynew05
"Here my and my husband's clothes were thrown away," wrote Ani in her upload.
After several days of leaving her in-laws' house, Ani finally gave birth to her first child. Ani admitted that those were difficult times. How could it not be, giving birth was the first moment in her life, but there were no parents beside her, neither her biological mother nor her in-laws. For information, Ani's biological mother has died.
Can you imagine how sad Ani was at that time? However, as a mother, Ani always tries to radiate happiness. Moreover, he didn't want his daughter to feel sadness like what he felt.
The problem with his relationship with his in-laws has apparently not improved. The presence of grandchildren could not melt the hearts of his in-laws. Ani still gets bad looks and even her in-laws always try to bad-mouth Ani and her husband.
evicted by my in-laws when I was heavily pregnant
TikTok/@aniynew05
"Still happy even though your in-laws are hostile and bad-mouthed," he wrote in the caption.
On the other hand, Ani feels very sad because her growing daughter doesn't get love from her grandmother. She can only strengthen her child and ensure that her daughter will not lack love, because she and her husband will continue to accompany her.
At the end, Ani explained the reasons why she and her husband were expelled. It turned out that at that time her husband was still trying to find work. Ani didn't intend to stay at her in-laws' house for long. After her husband has an income, Ani plans to find a place of her own.
However, her husband's efforts have not borne fruit. His in-laws also seemed bored, because neither of them had their own house. During the two months that Ani and her husband lived in that house, her in-laws objected. Even though her son was her own, the mother did not want her child to stay with her for long.
What's even sadder is that Ani admits that she only eats 2 times a day. Even that plate was shared with her husband.
evicted by my in-laws when I was heavily pregnant
TikTok/@aniynew05
"At that time, my husband couldn't get a job yet, he intended to stay for a while, but the in-laws kicked us out," he wrote.
This touching story from Ani also attracted attention. They understand how Ani feels. Netizens also provide support to Ani so that she remains strong in life. In fact, quite a few people share similar stories.
"Just think positively sis, maybe that's how parents can make their children independent," said the account @rahmastore121.
"You're not alone, sis. I've experienced something like you in the past. In 2022, I'm heavily pregnant, and coincidentally, I'm just after dawn, I've finished eating," wrote the account @uci_fdlh
"I've been in this position, Sis. The fruit of my patience. Thank God my in-laws are fine now," said the account @parcel_lamongan
"I was pregnant with my first child, too. Even though people say it's normal to be pregnant when you move," wrote the account @liaoktalia.
evicted by my in-laws when I was heavily pregnant
TikTok/@aniynew05
From the time the video was posted until this article was written, the @aninew05 account has gathered 195,000 viewers. Apart from that, there are also thousands of accounts that have given likes and hundreds of comments.