Brilio.net - Everyone who is going through a breakup has a different response to their ex. There are those who immediately delete memories by blocking all of their ex's social media, but there are also those who keep them as memories.
Recently, a wife confided in her husband who apparently still had photos of memories with his ex-girlfriend. Not only that, her husband also still discusses past memories with his ex-girlfriend with his mother.
Annoyed by this, the wife looked for her husband's ex-girlfriend's social media to explain what had happened. Reporting from TikTok @dhinafty, this woman named Dhina admitted that she was contacted by her ex-lover's wife.
The wife stated that her husband still often discussed his past with his in-laws. In fact, when his in-laws were sick, Dhin was the one he looked for. It's not her who is now his son's legal wife. Knowing this, of course Dhina was shocked beyond words.
Wife's story to her husband's ex-girlfriend because she can't move on
TikTok/@dhinafty
"Sis, I'm your ex's wife. We already have children, but my in-laws and my husband still often discuss sis, until when my in-laws are sick, they look for you, sis. What should I do, sis?" she said, as reported by TikTok @dhinafty, Monday (27/5) .
Not only that, the thing that makes the wife annoyed with her husband is because he still keeps memories of photos of his ex. Also created a fake social media account to find out about Dhina's life.
Wife's story to her husband's ex-girlfriend because she can't move on
TikTok/@dhinafty
"Until my husband still keeps an archive of your photos, sis, he created a fake account to look at you on TikTok. I know everything from your Google email. Honestly, I'm sad and I don't know what to do, sis," he added.
Not wanting to hurt the feelings of his ex-lover's wife, Dhina also intended to block all of his ex's social media accounts. Because, he no longer wants to have any connection with the past. Remembering, she will have a domestic relationship with the man of her choice.
Wife's story to her husband's ex-girlfriend because she can't move on
TikTok/@dhinafty
"I'm also confused about what to do. If I may ask, would you mind telling me the name of the TikTok account, then I'll block it from here, sis. Besides, I already have a future husband, we're preparing to get married, sis," explained Dhina.
The wife also thanked Dhina for responding well to her complaints. However, she often feels like she has failed as a wife because her husband keeps discussing Dhina without thinking about her feelings.
"I'm also confused about how to act, sis. I've often been sincere because I feel like I'm married, but over time I've felt like I'm under pressure, sis. But thank you, sis," explained the wife of her ex-boyfriend.
Dhina admitted that she had never communicated with the man who was said to be her ex. Notwithstanding the man's wife's comments, Dhina also asked his wife to contact the man so he could contact him directly.
Without further ado, Dhina went straight into the topic of discussion. From the contents of the chat shared, Dhina was really annoyed by the man's attitude, especially his treatment of his wife.
"I'm about to get married, what do you expect from me? I don't even think about it, let alone remember. I want to finish it well. I don't want to get angry, actually. It's none of my business, but you brought me into the mix in your family. "Don't give me any understanding, the story is over, it's over. You're crazy, aren't you?" said Dhina when she contacted her ex-boyfriend again.
Unexpectedly, her ex-boyfriend's response actually made Dhina even more annoyed. Because, instead of erasing all memories with Dhina, his lover still wants to think about him. Because he feels sorry for Dhina, who now has to live independently since her father left her forever.
Wife's story to her husband's ex-girlfriend because she can't move on
TikTok/@dhinafty
"Yes Dhin, I'm sorry. Thank you for reminding me, but I have my own reasons why I'm like this," said his ex-girlfriend.
"I don't know why I keep thinking about you. It's a pity to see that you are now independent since your father is no longer here," he explained further in Javanese.
Dhina is also annoyed by the reasons why her ex-lover has not been able to move on. Immediately blocking her ex-lover's cash, Dhina also threatened to share her chat with her ex-lover on social media. Nothing but to deter his ex-girlfriend.
"I'm emotional. Don't spill chats on TikTok so that netizens tease you. Just take a look," he concluded.