Brilio.net - Many people need certainty in romantic relationships because emotionally it can provide a sense of security. Certainty allows couples to plan a clearer future together. With reassurance, a person feels more valued and connected, strengthening commitment and trust in the relationship.
That's what this woman from Malaysia wants. He said that he had a girlfriend who couldn't say for sure when he would marry her. This story immediately attracted attention from netizens.
Quoted by brilio.net from mstar.com, Tuesday (28/5), the woman had been in a relationship with a man. However, the man never gave confirmation. In his statement, his new girlfriend could marry him in 4 years at the latest.
"I have a male friend and he promised to marry me in four years," he said.
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However, the time requested by his girlfriend was considered too long. The woman, who is now 26 years old, can no longer wait because she is being chased by age. If he fulfills his girlfriend's promise, he will only get married at the age of 30.
In the midst of his sadness at not being able to wait for his girlfriend, he was also faced with the appearance of another man. Not only did he want to make friends, the man he had just met came to immediately propose. A dilemma that makes him have to make important decisions in life.
"At the same time, another man came to propose. He was also emotionally stable and had a job," said the woman.
Faced with a difficult choice, plus her condition of wanting a man to look after her, the woman finally made the decision to accept the man who came to propose.
A sacrifice for a more definite life decision, the woman chose to give up her love for her boyfriend. They declared their separation the day before the wedding. The girlfriend allowed her lover to live a new life with another man.
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"I broke up with my boyfriend the day before the wedding. My ex immediately blocked all my social media accounts," added the woman.
However, his desire to get married quickly actually had an impact on his emotional condition when running a household. The woman said that she felt sorry for making that decision. How could it not be, after legally becoming someone else's wife, she continues to have memories of her ex.
The woman said that her husband was now a good priest. She also lives a happy life, even though when she gets married the woman doesn't have feelings for her husband. But unfortunately, in the middle of the trip he kept thinking about his ex.
"Good husband. I just feel like I keep remembering my ex. Every day I stalk my ex to see if he has a new girlfriend," he said.
In this condition, she feels guilty towards her husband because he remembers another man. However, on the other hand, he also finds it difficult to forget his ex. This situation made him go awry.
"At the same time, I seem to be praying with my husband. Am I guilty? Please pray for me. I love my husband, but sometimes I remember my ex," he said.
The story, which was uploaded on X, went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many netizens actually advised the woman not to think about other men when she became a legal wife . Because it is a small betrayal.
"Asking to break up the day before the wedding. Can't imagine what his ex is feeling," said a netizen.
"When the husband and wife bond is valid with a marriage contract, old love must be thrown away. Don't indulge in that slander. You have ample room to move on. Wish the best for your ex," said another netizen.
"Already a wife. Don't imagine other men. That's the smallest betrayal. Rarely let yourself be lulled by the devil's whispers," commented netizens.