Brilio.net - At an age and condition where you are ready to get married, who wouldn't be happy if someone you loved proposed to you? In the context of a romantic relationship, a proposal is generally considered a sign of seriousness. A proposal is also a form of agreement or agreement to build a future together.
In Indonesia, the application process usually involves the man coming to visit the woman's house. At that moment, the man's family expressed their intention to make their child (the bride) part of their family. Usually this tradition also prepares special events such as small meals.
So, of course the woman as the receptionist must prepare a welcome. Whether it's with cakes, food and so on. Not a few also hold big events with luxurious decorations during the proposal. But unfortunately, the plans prepared do not always run smoothly.
Like the video shared by the owner of the TikTok account @mariska_riccha. Reported by brilio.net on Friday (9/2), the beginning of the video shows the condition of a house full of neatly arranged food. It is known that the treat was to welcome the man who wanted to propose to one of the girls in the house.
photo: TikTok/@mariska_riccha
The house also looked a bit busy due to the arrival of relatives. However, after waiting for a long time, even until evening, the man and his family never came. Of course, this not only makes you sad, but also makes the woman's family embarrassed. Especially if the event invites several people.
" For men, don't make promises, if this is the case, who will be embarrassed ," he wrote in the caption.
From the story of the video maker, the houses of the men's and women's families are actually far apart. However, they have had intense communication. According to him, the proposal ceremony was postponed because the man was experiencing an accident.
photo: TikTok/@mariska_riccha
The two of them decided to move the application to another day. However, when that day arrived, the man's family did not come without even a word. What makes him even more annoying is that the woman he wants to propose to is an orphan. This will really hurt his feelings a little.
Moreover, the food provided was prepared with the woman's own money. The family only gives what they can. The video maker said that the woman was willing to go into debt for this event because the man had promised to pay in return.
" Use your own money, Sis. We as a big family gave what we could, he owed the rest because the candidate promised to replace it later ," said the video maker.
photo: TikTok/@mariska_riccha
However, the family chose not to bother. From the caption listed, they actually responded jokingly. There was the sound of singing in the regional language and several people around him laughed. The woman does this with the intention of avoiding disappointment.
This video also attracted the attention of netizens and was watched tens of thousands of times. Many can imagine the pain even if they only see the video. Apart from that, it certainly gives encouragement to women to remain steadfast in going through the day.
" Be patient, brother. Hug me far. I also almost experienced the same thing. Thank God, the Almighty protected me, " wrote the account @nyairangda3
" I've had it too, but because it's far away, it didn't arrive as expected. But in the end it still failed, " said the account @_jahra07
" Oh my God, it really hurts to read that too. Be patient, sis ," said the account @pisces0240
" I can't imagine the shame plus the pain, " commented the account @putri.handayani895.