Brilio.net - Many couples are always enthusiastic when celebrating their wedding anniversary. How could it not be, this will be a beautiful moment for both of them because they have been able to stay together for the past year. Apart from that, it will be a reflection and evaluation so that we can stay together again next year.
Well, this man also celebrated the celebration. However, not as usual. It can be seen that he celebrated it only with his children because his wife had died. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @asepsaefudin497.
In his post, the man named Asep can be seen celebrating his wedding anniversary by visiting the grave. This moment is used to send prayers and hopes that one day they will be reunited in heaven. So far, their married relationship has been going on for 4 years.
photo: TikTok/@asepsaefudin497
It is known that Asep married his wife on March 1 2020. He recalled how 4 years ago, Asep and his wife were busy preparing for the wedding. He also admitted that currently his body and soul are very fragile because he doesn't have a wife beside him.
"Mom, dad is weak without mom, Dad still needs mom," he wrote in the caption.
photo: TikTok/@asepsaefudin497
The way this man celebrates his anniversary also shows sincerity. He was seen placing a mat and several cloths on the grave. Don't forget there are white pillows and also the Koran. Asep apparently chose to sleep on his wife's grave as a form of expressing his longing.
"I want to come with you, but I have a mandate I have to guard. Our baby," he said.
Asep also told how his wife left forever. He said that initially his wife was sick and was taken by the car they had. It turned out that the wife's illness was serious enough that she had to be referred to the hospital. Asep also decided to take his wife by ambulance.
Asep followed the ambulance using the car behind. However, it turns out that God loves his wife more. Upon arrival at the hospital, the woman named Neng Retno breathed her last breath. Asep could only surrender.
photo: TikTok/@asepsaefudin497
This story also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many people expressed their condolences for what Asep felt. Not a few netizens have felt the same thing, namely being abandoned by their loved ones.
"It's really hard, bro, to leave your wife because as a husband you don't feel satisfied as a mother of our children. Your fate is the same as mine, bro," wrote the account @miput1
"I also left my wife to go to heaven and she left behind a cute and cute child," said the account @ikhsandharmafebriansa
"My sister died for about 13 years, my male brother-in-law hasn't married yet and left his children when they were still small," said the account @putrieriyana1
"If I had gone first, would my husband be like this, God," commented the account @luyaisyam
photo: TikTok/@asepsaefudin497
From the time the video was posted until this article was written, the @asepsaefudin497 account has gathered 4.5 million views. Apart from that, there were also 87,200 accounts that gave likes and 1,910 comments.