Brilio.net - For many people, marriage is not just a legal bond, but a long journey to build a long-lasting and meaningful relationship. In achieving these goals, effective communication plays a central role. Couples who are able to communicate openly and honestly can form the basis of a strong relationship to understand each other.
Apart from that, openness and honesty are also no less important which will provide a solid foundation for the relationship . Lasting relationships are also often built on shared values and life goals. Challenges and conflicts are an inseparable part of every relationship, for those who are not strong enough to face these challenges, separation will be difficult to avoid.
Challenges in marriage also occur for this woman. She shared the story of her successful marriage to her husband, which made her sad. His story can be seen in the TikTok video with the username @dsmpermata as reported by brilio.net , Tuesday (6/2).
The video shows several photos between a man and a woman. It is known that it turned out to be a wedding photo of the video owner. He also tore the photos into several pieces.
photo: TikTok/@dsmpermata
The background sound shows that he is about to let go of the person in the photo. The narration also states that he wants to let go of what has passed and hopes to turn off all feelings towards the man. Of course there is nothing more to hope for in the future other than happiness.
After investigation, this woman chose to separate from her husband. The problems that become obstacles to their relationship cannot be overcome. So the marriage relationship of less than a year was forced to dissolve.
photo: TikTok/@dsmpermata
In the video it is explained that she has known her husband for 10 years. Eight months ago she chose to get married and is now pregnant with her first child and is already three months pregnant.
However, she decided to separate because her husband had chosen to be with a third person. What makes it even more annoying is that the third person is her husband's family. The caption also explains that the relationship between her husband and his mistress is supported by the family.
"Bismillah, I will accept everything and never appear again in my life and that of my future children," he wrote in the caption.
photo: TikTok/@dsmpermata
The woman was divorced when she had just recovered from illness. Her husband suddenly came and asked for a divorce. Initially the woman was still trying to defend herself. However, the husband no longer had the desire to continue so he was divorced while pregnant.
Basically, even though divorce is not recommended, it is permitted by state and religious law. Marriage Law No. 1 of 1974 does not prohibit husbands from divorcing pregnant wives. Apart from that, in the hadith narrated by Ahmad and Muslim it is also said that there is no problem with the mentality of a pregnant wife.
However, the child in the womb is still the responsibility of the husband and father. Marriage Law No. 1 of 1974 articles 41 and 42, as well as the Compilation of Islamic Law articles 80 and 81, state that fathers are still obliged to provide support for their children even after divorce.
This video also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many people also support the woman for what she has received. Apart from that, several netizens also told similar sad stories that they had experienced.
From the video being posted until this article was written, the @dsmpermata account has gathered 442.4 thousand viewers. Apart from that, there were also 12.8 thousand accounts that gave likes and 900 comments.
"I just finished with him and then I cried to my mother. My mother said it's a good thing you didn't end up with him, it's better to be sick now than to be sick for the rest of your life," wrote the account @kepiting2306.
"I dated for 6 months and 8 years, ending in divorce," said the account @nurul_libra19.
"I was once divorced after 3 days of giving birth. It hurt worse than giving birth, maybe because of my in-laws. But now, thank God," said the account @cicimaryani205
"It turns out that the length of dating doesn't determine the nature of the family next door, so I'm afraid of getting married, my mother is really good," said the account miegelas60.