Brilio.net - After getting married, many women dream of living in their own house with their husband, without having to live with their in-laws. This is because he wants to build an independent family life and have a private space. And avoid several potential problems if you live with your in-laws.
One of the women confided in how uncomfortable it was for her to live with her in-laws . In fact, because of the mental pressure she was experiencing, the woman admitted that she often cried and experienced stress. His weight dropped by 6 kg. The story can be seen in the TikTok video posted by the account @zaitunmoramil.
Zaitun said that after only 3 weeks of marriage, inner turmoil had already arrived. He was treated arbitrarily by his own in-laws. A lot of homework was assigned to him.
"I'm tired of being considered a babu every day since living at my in-laws' house," he wrote in the caption.
photo: TikTok/@zaitunmoramil
When he wants to eat, the culture at his in-laws' house is to wait for his father to come home first. So that they will eat together. No matter how hungry Olive was, he was never allowed to eat first. Even though his body was already weak because his stomach had not been filled.
Every morning, Olive has to go to the market to buy cooking necessities. After that, he will also cook the ingredients. Not quite up there. Olive will also do other housework, such as washing, drying and so on. And that's not for himself, but rather includes everyone in the house.
photo: TikTok/@zaitunmoramil
This is certainly confusing for Olive. Why does he take care of all the household needs, even his father-in-law's coffee, alone? Is that a consequence of living in my parents' house?
"Does that really have to be my job since I'm here?" said Olive.
Apart from the workload at home, she is also often stressed when asked about pregnancy. He also kept the inner pressure deep. When she was pregnant, it turned out that her husband had to work outside the area so he was left alone at his in-laws' house. It was at this time that his inner pressure became stronger.
photo: TikTok/@zaitunmoramil
Zaitun admitted that since she was pregnant, she had often been verbally abused by her in-laws who were thought to like wandering around. Even when she was pregnant and sick with the flu, she was asked to sleep on the sofa. He was confused about how he could face his in-laws' treatment of him.
"Should I accept treatment like this?" he said
Olive continued to feel this during pregnancy and even until birth. Only one day old was his son, he admitted that he received unpleasant treatment from his in-laws. The mother-in-law asked her not to be wasteful. Even though the baby's needs are very important. He was increasingly at his wit's end in dealing with his in-laws.
This story also went viral and attracted the attention of netizens. Many have encouraged Olive to remain strong in life. Apart from that, they also flocked to give advice to the woman about what she should do.
"Yaela just has to go home to her parents. You only have one life, why suffer? Our happiness is what we determine," said the account @zeyn
"I lived in a boomer house, from birth until the child was 9 months old, and my husband left me to work out of town. From 70 kg to 48 kg, if you want to diet, it's better to go to my in-laws' house," wrote the account @aisyahdiah
"If the husband doesn't support us, we'll go to the religious court," said the account @ikha
"Don't go to your in-laws' house, sometimes that's the case at your parents' house. In the end I chose to join my husband in going abroad," commented the account @mii21146.
photo: TikTok/@zaitunmoramil
From the video being posted until this article was written, Tuesday (19/3), the @zaitunmoramil account has been watched 251,400 times. Apart from that, there are also 2,828 accounts whose members like and 814 comments.