Brilio.net - You must have felt uncomfortable when you heard other people's words. Of course, this condition makes you reluctant to meet that person again. Because basically, words that can hurt people really make anyone uncomfortable. In fact, the impact is quite big for those who receive these words.
Therefore, always saying kind words is highly recommended. The reason is that saying good is an important aspect in everyday life that reflects a person's moral and ethical qualities. Success in communication does not only depend on the content of the message conveyed, but also on the method of delivery. Speaking kindly includes using polite words , respecting the person you are talking to, and choosing expressions that are not derogatory.
Additionally, saying nice things also has a big impact on psychological and emotional well-being. Positive words can improve your mood and help create harmonious relationships with other people. On the other hand, harsh or derogatory words can create conflict and tension.
In Islam, saying good things has a very high position and is considered a practice recommended by religion.
Rasulullah Muhammad SAW has set an extraordinary example in speaking with gentle, affectionate and polite words to all levels of society.
His words are full of wisdom and wisdom. Allah SWT in the Qur'an also emphasizes the importance of saying kind words and avoiding harsh or degrading words.
So, so that you better understand the importance of saying good words, you can interpret the hadiths of saying good things. Reporting from brilio.net from various sources, (7/3), here are 50 Hadiths that say good things to get rid of bad attitudes:
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1. "Whoever believes in God and the Last Day, should speak well or remain silent." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
2. "A believer must not oppress, abuse, and must not be wicked." (HR. Tirmidhi)
3. "Say to good people, 'Be good,' and say to bad people, 'Repent.'" (HR. Ahmad)
4. "It is not halal for a Muslim to insult his brother." (HR. Muslim)
5. "The person most loved by God and the closest to his position on the Day of Judgment is the person with the best morals and the most refined speech." (HR. Ahmad)
6. "Truly a believer softens like heated iron, his heart remains hard, but his tongue is soft." (HR. Muslim)
7. "From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, 'Whoever is not grateful to people, then he is not grateful to Allah.'" (Hadith Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
8. "Do not criticize the food." (HR. Muslim)
9. "You should help and help your brother, whether he is the oppressor or the oppressed." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
10. "It is not halal for a Muslim to hate his brother for more than three nights." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
It is forbidden to criticize the actions, heart and mind of a Muslim
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11. "A Muslim cools his face without reproach." (HR. Abu Dawud)
12. "Whoever avoids things that are not useful, then he has saved his religion." (HR. Ahmad)
13. "The best man is the most useful to man." (HR. Ahmad)
14. "Every word that does not benefit, it is better to be silent." (HR. Ahmad)
15. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, "Whoever saves someone from injustice, then Allah will enter his face into heaven on the Day of Resurrection." (HR. Tirmidhi)
16. "Every good thing is charity." (HR. Muslim)
17. "Truly a person who has a good character will get what he wants." (HR. Ahmad)
18. "Don't insult food, because insulting food is insulting its owner." (HR. Muslim)
19. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet Muhammad SAW said, "Indeed a servant can say a word without thinking about it, and with that he falls into hell farther than the eye can see." (HR. Tirmidhi)
20. "Each practice depends on the intention, and each person will earn according to his intention." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
A Muslim is obliged to speak well and be polite
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21. "A Muslim whose faith is most perfect is the one who has good behavior, and the one who is most loved by people is the one who is most beneficial to them." (HR. Ahmad)
22. "It is not good for a believer to curse or scold others." (HR. Tirmidhi)
23. "Verily those words are like magic, they can heal or hurt." (HR. Bukhari)
24. "One of the virtues of Islam is to leave what is of no use to him." (HR. Tirmidhi)
25. "It is not good to be prejudiced against a Muslim brother." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
26. "Whoever defends his brother in front of those who criticize or oppress him, then God will defend him in front of people on the Day of Resurrection." (HR. Tirmidhi)
27. "Don't hate each other, don't envy each other, don't turn your back on each other, and you should be brothers and sisters of God." (HR. Muslim)
28. "The faith of a person among you is not perfect, until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
29. "One's body weight in the eyes of God is good character." (HR. Muslim)
30. "Let not one of you hate his brother, because if he hates his brother, then in his heart there is guilt against his brother." (HR. Muslim)
31. "One will not enter heaven if there is a grain of pride in his heart." (HR. Muslim)
32. "Verily, one of the signs of the goodness of a person's Islam is that he abandons things that do not benefit him." (HR. Tirmidhi)
33. "A believer must not insult or revile his brother." (HR. Tirmidhi)
34. "No one reaches the highest degree in heaven except by the grace of God and the goodness of his character." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
35. "Stick to good morals." (HR. Muslim)
36. "Giving food is the best way to make the heart happy." (HR. Ahmad)
37. From Anas bin Malik, the Prophet SAW said, "If you do good to women, orphans, and the poor, then you are like soldiers who are on guard at night." (HR. Ahmad)
38. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, "Do good to your parents, so that your children will also do good to you." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
39. "A believer should not force himself to be angry, because if he forces himself to be angry, then his heart becomes black." (HR. Ahmad)
40. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, "Indeed, the person most loved by Allah and the closest to Him on the Day of Resurrection is the person with noble character and good character." (HR. Tirmidhi)
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41. "One of the virtues of Islam is to abandon what is of no use to him." (HR. Tirmidhi)
42. "Indeed it is not good for someone to curse the food he eats." (HR. Muslim)
43. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, "If a person helps his brother, Allah will help him." (HR. Muslim)
44. "A person with good character is the most loved by the people." (HR. Ahmad)
45. "He who is harsh and who likes to criticize will not enter heaven." (HR. Bukhari-Muslim)
46. From Abdullah bin Amr, the Prophet SAW said, "The best of you are those who have the best morals among you." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
47. "We do not include those who do not love children and do not respect the elderly." (HR. Ahmad)
48. From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW said, "The believer whose faith is perfect is the best in character, and the best among you is the best for his wives." (HR. Tirmidhi)
49. "A believer must not reproach, cannot speak dirty, and must not do bad things." (HR. Tirmidhi)
50. "Don't swear at food." (HR. Muslim)