Brilio.net - Sabda Ahessa appeared with news of her wedding which was held secretly in Jordan. This news certainly surprised many people considering that it had not been a year since she ended her relationship with Wulan Guritno.
This happy news was announced directly by the mother, Shanty Widhiyanti Hamid, via an Instagram upload. Unfortunately, Shanty has not revealed the face of her daughter-in-law who is said to be from Jordan.
" Baarakallahu laka wa baarakaa alaika wa jama'a bainakumaa fii khair (May Allah bless you and your partner and guide you both (as husband and wife) in goodness) Alhamdulillah Allah brought Sabda together with his soulmate in Jordan, " wrote Shanty on Instagram @shantywsh.
photo: Instagram/@shantywsh
Sabda's marriage also became a highlight because of the background of his hijrah after breaking up with Wulan Guritno. In an interview on Melaney Ricardo's YouTube channel on June 9, 2024, Sabda admitted that he no longer wanted to date and preferred taaruf so he could get to know his partner without having to get involved in excessive romance.
"No (I want to date)," said Sabda, quoted from Melaney Ricardo's YouTube, quoted by brilio.net on Sunday (27/10).
"The purpose of taaruf is so that we can get to know people without using feelings, without romance. What I mean is, we're allowed to be attracted to someone, but don't let that attraction blind you. That's what happened to me in the past," he added.
Sabda also emphasized that taaruf, in his view, is carried out without physical contact and excessive interaction. He only wants to follow religious rules.
"No body contact. Get to know each other. There are rules," he explained.
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Sabda's spiritual experience also strengthened his choice to find a partner who has similar values and visions. The 28-year-old man also revealed the main criteria for his ideal partner.
"Whatever is important is pious, whatever Allah has destined for me. What is important is the same values, what is important is the same vision, what is important is I can respect her, there's mutual respect," explained Sabda.
However, Sabda's decision to migrate was apparently not only because he broke up with Wulan Guritno, but also stemmed from a personal experience that awakened his awareness to live a more religious life.
photo: Instagram/@shantywsh
His unhealthy lifestyle previously caused Sabda to experience intestinal infection. This health condition opened his eyes to the lifestyle he had been living and encouraged him to introspect.
"My life before colitis, it was just a series of worldly pleasures. Everything was just to satisfy lust," he said.
Now, Sabda Ahessa is officially married and entering a new chapter in her life. With the wedding held in Jordan, she seems to be holding on to her new principles and goals in life.