Brilio.net - His appearance and jokes always invite laughter in the comedy talk show program 'Not Empat Mata' (B4M) which airs on Trans7. She was Marcella Lumowa whose presence was not only complementary, but also gave its own color to the event.
In the program hosted by comedian Tukul, the woman who was born on May 29 1976 presented the 'Ask Guest Tukul' segment. There, he is always present with his trademark joking style, and of course with a "magical" hairdo.
The woman who is familiarly called Sella joined 'B4M' (formerly, 'Empat Mata') since 2008. Even the segment he presented on the show had its name changed three times.
However, now the name seems to have disappeared like the earth swallowed it. Yep, Sella decided to take a hiatus from the Indonesian entertainment world . He last appeared on the small screen in the soap opera Super Didi in 2016.
During her hiatus, Sella enjoyed the happiness of taking care of her husband and children. However, this happiness was taken away when her husband had to go home to God. This moment was the lowest point in Sella's life, considering that her husband's death could be said to be sudden.
"It's true that he passed away suddenly, I mean he was no longer in hospital or sick, it was very shocking," said Marcella when appearing as a guest star on Melaney Ricardo's YouTube podcast.
photo: YouTube/Melaney Ricardo
Even for months, Sella was still mourning the death of her husband. It cannot be denied that there is a deep sense of loss because half of his soul has gone.
"I won't be able to call, I won't be able to chat, I will never be able to do that again in my life like before, so I feel lost, my husband is like half of our soul," she concluded.
Marcella also had doubts about her ability to raise her three children without a husband. He realizes that children are a big responsibility in his life.
"I can't do it alone, the responsibility is big, not only financially but in all aspects of life," he said.
"Am I able to overcome all the challenges of life, that's what I think is difficult," added Marcella.
photo: YouTube/Melaney Ricardo
Marcella also said that money or her husband's inheritance were not the only solutions. He reiterated that taking care of three children alone was the hardest thing for Marcella.
As time goes by, Marcella has made peace with the situation. 3 years of being left by her husband made her a stronger person. During these difficult times, he realized that physical and mental health were the main things in being able to live a better life.