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Brilio.net - Despite her busy entertainment and social media activities, Inara Rusli still makes time to deepen her religious knowledge. For this mother of three, balancing the physical and spiritual worlds is one of the important priorities in her life. She believes that maintaining faith is not a task that can be taken lightly, especially in situations and environments full of distractions.
The activity of studying the Koran or attending regular studies is an effective way for him to maintain peace of mind. Being in a positive and religious environment gives him new energy when he feels spiritually tired. Moments of togetherness with people on the same frequency can help him maintain his enthusiasm for life which sometimes fades.
Not only did she get closer to God, the routine also made her meet a new, supportive environment. She felt more accepted and understood in a community that cared for each other and had the same vision in terms of goodness. From this circle, Inara felt that her life was much more balanced and meaningful.
Inara explained that she routinely attends religious studies at least once a month. She also tries to attend if there is an invitation to a study council as long as the time allows.
"Not every day, in my assembly I do it once a month, my ngaji is held once a month, but for studies, whenever someone invites me, I definitely make time to attend if I have the time," he said when met in the South Tangerang area, quoted by brilio.net from KapanLagi, Tuesday (15/4).
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Inara realizes that a person's faith is not always stable and can fluctuate depending on the situation. Therefore, sharing stories with friends who have the same spiritual vision is a source of encouragement for her.
"Because faith always goes up and down, so when our faith is up again, not down either, when we need to recharge, meeting, chatting and sharing with our friends who are on the same frequency is very important to be able to restore our mood," he continued.
Her closeness to the new circle made Inara feel more appreciated and protected, especially by her closest friends. She admitted that she was grateful to be able to get a sincere and caring relationship after going through many things in her life.
"I'm really happy. Because it's a blessing that I didn't get before," he said.
One of the figures who is now always there for her is Ening Ela, a close friend who is considered like a new family. Inara feels comfortable with the extra attention given by the people around her because everything is done with good intentions.
"Yes, that's true. Especially Ening Ela, gosh, Masya Allah, she's so protective. But I'm grateful that I got a new family who happens to care about me. So I'm not bothered if they do that because their goal is good, right? To sort out the people in my circle," he added.
Inara also pays attention to matters of marriage. She admits to being very selective and does not want to carelessly open her heart to new people without first checking their background.
"I definitely do profiling, profiling by asking for confirmation from my friends, from my circle who I think know the person," he said.
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Despite being careful in matters of marriage, Inara still received many personal messages with an invitation to taaruf from strangers. However, she did not take it too seriously because she felt that her approach was not quite right.
"If that's the case, it's just considered entertainment. What's clear is that if people... it's not possible that they mean taaruf and continue via DM, it's not like that, it's not really funny, right," said Inara.
He compared the situation to a job application, which should be done professionally and thoughtfully. According to him, a marriage proposal should also be delivered in a more appropriate manner and not carelessly.
"It's like when we apply for a job, we have to submit a CV, we have to be professional, especially if we ask someone to marry us, it's like playing around," he continued.
Despite often receiving DMs from strangers, Inara admitted that she was not too bothered. She actually took the experience as entertainment.
"Just think of it as entertainment," he concluded.
(brl/psa)
